shy or not interested

[divinesong]

the ever present debate
how do you know if someone is shy or not interested? I personally find this harder among christians. but since i am unwilling to date outside of the faith, there is little else i can do but speculate... some opinions on the matter would be appreciated

 

[Isambard]

Ask?

 

[Elle_For_Short]

I wish they could tell. I always come off as uninterested, but really I am just shy! I suggest be more persistant with the shy/uninterested, but not pushy. The more you talk, the more we open up. If they don't open up after a while, then they are not interested. See MR. DARCY for example of a love-struck dummy.

 

[Alizera]

Just talk to the person. Usually shy people open up after they're comfortable with you. You can probably tell if they're interested then.

 

[Sketcher]

Shy people could be paid for killing their own interest. It's such a blurry line.

 

[Allegory]

the ever present debate
how do you know if someone is shy or not interested? I personally find this harder among christians. but since i am unwilling to date outside of the faith, there is little else i can do but speculate... some opinions on the matter would be appreciated

I'm interested, let's date.

 

[life&dreams]

talk to them a little; get them out of their shell. then they will probably be more predictable

 

[eugeneandbobo]

time seems to be one of the biggest determinants in that particular debate

 

[divinesong]

I'm interested, let's date.

HA HA thank you...

 

[Namarie]

I am an extreamly shy person. I have this thing called social anxiety disorder, where people make me really nervous to the point where i get sick. I feel bad because when ever i meet someone new their first impression is usually that i am stuck up, mad, or just dont care. none of these are true, most of the time i am just trying to fight off a stomach ache. And yes it is true the more someone talks to me the more i will start to open up to them. so dont give up.

 

[ephesus32]

they're probably feeling the same way about you... maybe.... i think u should ask if you really like the guy

 

[EazyMack]

Based on your profile pic, I'm going with "shy."