It might be interesting to have a thread about knowing/thinking/feeling.
Laodicean, when you walk past somebody and know their heart hurts, because you can feel it, that's information. When your heart is lifted by viewing God's creation - that's information.
Emotions are rich with information. This is why in the field of emotional intelligence we sometimes speak of emotions as information animated - or information in motion.
You can always trust your emotions - they are what they are. The question is knowing something about their origin and path into expression. Knowing their nature.
I hear you, Avonia. Yes, I think that should be an interesting discussion, but you would need to lead out in it since I sense that you are more informed on the subject of emotional intelligence than I am.
Maybe I am too analytical, and can use some heart knowledge. So do say on. I'm all ears
Question: Do you think that sensing someone's sadness is sufficient in a relationship? Or should we want more information about that sadness? Maybe it is sufficient to just recognize someone's hurting heart, and we be there for them, in silence and sympathy, without the cacophony of words that may or may not truly describe the problem, right? If I were sure that that is all that is necessary, I would hold back in the future. I do want to learn how to relate to others in a genuine, unwordy manner.
You say we should trust our emotions. I tend to shy away from that concept since my emotions sometimes lead me astray. But I think I have an idea of what you mean. Like trust your gut instincts? I started reading the book "Blink" by Malcolm Gladwell, but did not finish it. That probably means I really need it bad!
Start a new thread if you want to discuss this subject, okay? I'll follow.
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