Q. wrote,
Making myself clear on this forum is a real challenge for me.
I have ruffled enough feathers.
But, to answer your question, I am certainly not saying that we should use unrepentant sinners as a pool for our ministry team. What I think I am trying to say is that perhaps we should not totally exclude pre-Christians from participation in the church. Of course, I am not saying we should put them in positions of ministry or leadership, but perhaps we can find places of service to those who may be sincerely seeking answers but have not yet arrived. At our church we allow people service at some points of entry even though they are rough around the edges and we have yet to get any negative feedback from anyone. In fact, quite the opposite. It is rare, but at our church we sometimes allow non-believers to help load in and out, set up, attend worship team practice, pass out bulletins, even usher people to a seat. It is a way of showing them that we respect them and, almost without fail, eventually helps leads to their conversion.
As you know, non-believers sometimes think Christians are hypocrites because they work or socialize with church members who wear one face to church and another to work or play. This complaint is, of course, usually just an excuse for many but we have to admit there are times when it is justified. And when they are aware that we are qucik to judge their sin and blind to a member's hypocrisy, it can alienate them, sometimes permanently, from the church.
Some years ago as a pastor of a church near Houston, I allowed our married music director (a strict moralist) to set extremely high standards for choir and orchestra members. One hint of immorality, even in their dress, was enough to exclude them from participation. I allowed it (I am ashamed to admit) and stood by while he ran roughshod over peoples feeling. Within a couple of years he fell ill and was diagnosed with AIDS, probably contacted while he was having a clandestine homosexual affair with another member of the church right under my nose. Regretfully, he died from his illness. I deservedly had to face the music from those I had allowed him to abuse for breaking his strict dress codes and moral strictures. It helped me to learn that you cant judge from appearance only and today I am very slow to accept a persons spirituality at face value. Indeed, I am having enough trouble cleaning up my own back yard and maybe that is why I am not too quick to either condone or condemn a person.
But, like I said, I am certainly not recommending our style of ministry to anyone else. It is what God has called us to do and we intend to do whether anyone else does it or not or agrees with it or not. It is working wonderfully for us (at least so far!) and we will continue until we are directed to do otherwise.
Hope that answers your question.
Blessings,
Jim