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I'm a worship leader at my church and I've heard some say that we should talk to the people between songs while others say that we shouldn't. I would prefer not to talk to them just because I never know what to say and it feels awkward, but is it best if I do?

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When I talk, it is only because the Spirit is moving. If you're not sure what to say and it feels awkward, then just wait. I didn't talk for practically the 1st 2 years I was a worship leader. Now, I do - but it's definitely when I feel Him leading me to share. Unless I'm asking them to stand or be seated.
If you're really not ready or don't feel it's the right thing to do, then just do what you feel Him leading you to do. If you do feel you should say something and aren't sure what, start with reading Scripture. It's a great place to start to get comfortable speaking while leading :)
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I'm a worship leader at my church and I've heard some say that we should talk to the people between songs while others say that we shouldn't. I would prefer not to talk to them just because I never know what to say and it feels awkward, but is it best if I do?

What do you think?
Our worship leader doesn't talk hardly at all inbetween songs... I think there is a time for it and not a time.. Just follow the spirit and you can't go wrong!
 
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If you have something to say, talk .... if not, don't. You are worship leader and were obviously appointed to that position because of your personal style. You don't have to adopt any one elses. I personally like a few interjections between some songs but wouldn't care if there wasn't any. Usually I'm busy with my own worship :)
 
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I am the audio engineer for our church and I have an extensive back ground of sound production. I would say that you first should let the Spirit of God lead you in the music and listen to His voice. If He tells you to speak then obey Him, other than that, in a lot of cases, speaking in between each song can be very distracting and does not flow well with the service. So, listen to God and your heart, for there you will find the right thing to do. God Bless you as you serve Him.
 
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Hello,

I too like a few interjections in between songs. But as much as possible (whenever the Spirit of God moves) I'd rather have a spontaneous worship most of the time. But most of the time instead of talking or speaking in between songs I found myself praying to God sorta intro to the next song.

God bless
 
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I'm a worship leader at my church and I've heard some say that we should talk to the people between songs while others say that we shouldn't. I would prefer not to talk to them just because I never know what to say and it feels awkward, but is it best if I do?

What do you think?
I think that, talk when you feel led by the spirit. I don't think you need to talk between each song. :) But I think that a little talking is good, to make the church welcome. And to bring some warmth into the service. :)
 
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I think talking to introduce the next song is a good way to go... For example, if you were leading into Mighty to Save you could open with a short prayer..."Lord, we thank you that whatever we are going through, you are able to move the mountains and clear the way for us.....We thank you that you are mighty to save, whatever the circumstances ..." and you may find you get ito some more praise from there...if not, cool....
 
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I think talking to introduce the next song is a good way to go... For example, if you were leading into Mighty to Save you could open with a short prayer..."Lord, we thank you that whatever we are going through, you are able to move the mountains and clear the way for us.....We thank you that you are mighty to save, whatever the circumstances ..." and you may find you get ito some more praise from there...if not, cool....

Just don't overdo it. Otherwise, it becomes cliche, dry, cheesy, and fake.

Sometimes saying nothing at all is a good route. We should aim to find that balance of not letting our mouths run away from us and then speaking up to provide leadership.
 
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I sometimes lead worship at our church. I don't talk much between songs, and usually when I do, it's not to the people. I pray, but only when led by the spirit to do so. And it is usually a short prayer thanking God for inhabiting our worship, or asking him to pour out his spirit on us. I then go right into the next song. I just think our spirit/attitude of worship through song is more continuous that way.
 
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i've seen a lot of talkers and a lot of non-talkers. one of the korean worship leaders prepares and practices what he will say in between songs.
i'm thinking about becoming a worship leader, and as for me, i think it really depends on the songs and atmosphere of the church at that moment. sometimes words aren't needed, and sometimes people need that reassurance and encouragement to truly praise. (for example, i like it when the worship leader talks about lifting hands and not to be embarrased or self-conscience when worshiping... it sometimes helps)
i will depend on God to tell me when i need to say something to the congregation.
 
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I echo what everyone else says.

I might add one thing. It is our purpose as worship musicians to make ourselves transparent, putting the spotlight on the Lord.

We are not performers. We are not up there to have a fan club, to draw attention to ourselves. I've seen polished "performance" bands that do less for me spiritually than a children's group that can't sing in tune.

My wife and I left a church after we both concluded the musicians were just putting on a show. The praise worship leader seemed to be "forcing the talk" between songs.

Another church we visited has a one-man show prima donna worship leader. He is the alpha and the omega for the music program, and I know there are talented musicians in that church. We went for a couple of sundays, and decided that just wasn't for us. It's a shame because we very much liked the preaching and the people.

We've found another church where I'm a guitarist in the band.
 
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