Should I say something?

[Snowbunny]

Hola Everyone...

I am only 21, and i have just recently been married to a boy ive been in love with since i was 8... we grew up together... so we are so much closer than many other couples... anyway he is very overprotective and does not take bad news well... like he tries to "fix" things he cant possibly fix and worries all night trying to think of ways to fix them... anyway i am pregnant, and my doctors told me that there is a risk of death for me... because i am so small... i dont know whether i should tell him or not...

is it better to tell him... so that he knows and even though he will worry possibly over nothing, or is it better to not say anything... i am really scared about this and i dont know what to do...

gracias
annette

 

[Pilgrim1951]

Hola Annette. I looked at your picture. What a lovely young lady you are. I don't believe that married people should keep important information like this from each other. I do however think it is important to seek the leading of the Holy Spirit in how and when to approach the subject. You should not be carrying this concern by yourself, precious one. If you begin your marriage protecting your husband from reality, it may continue and could establish an unhealthy pattern in your relationship. Besides that, you need your husbands's prayers, and he needs to be able to pray for you! Don't leave him out of this, sweetheart, for both your sakes. By the way, doctors have been known to be wrong! You are in my prayers.
Pilgrim

 

[faithgoeson]

I have a very dear friend whose wife thought he wanted a boy more than anything in the world. She went against doctor's wishes and became pregnant with their son. He was happy and had no clue she was ill at all. She had a heart attack and died in the middle of labor. One minute, he's calling his mom to say the baby's almost here. The next, he's calling to say his wife just died. They saved the baby. The baby has never been held by a mother. His daddy had to bring him home to all the little things his mother had collected for him. Had she ever been honest, my friend would still have his soulmate. He misses her. Having a son with no mommy wasn't worth not having her. You need to talk to your husband. He deserves to know.

 

[ComesoonmyLORD]

Annette,
When you were married you and your husband became one in spirit. It is very important that you approach His throne united and together in prayer. Always remember young one that God is ALWAYS in control. Tell your husband and together you can approach God's throne where there is unlimited grace, peace, love, strength, and POWER!

 

[ComesoonmyLORD]

Annette- Haven't heard from you in awhile. Hope all is going well for you with this. Let us know.

 

[faithgoeson]

I still believe he has the right to know.