My husband is addicted to gambling. His gambling has gotten SO bad and no matter what I do he finds new and creative ways to gamble. He has literally gambled almost every month of our marriage but now instead of gambling small money he gambles entire paychecks. I have tried everything. He was depositing his checks into my account but then he opened a new account and had his entire check deposited into this secret account. He told me for a week and a half his manager forgot to submit his time sheet. Me and his son went without because of it. Finally after a week and a half of no check I knew he had gambled. It wasnt like an impulse, this time is was cold and calculated. A year ago he told me he was going to play cards with some friends and then I discovered he was on a date with another woman an hour away from us instead. I am not even over it. Nothing happened sexually. He pretended to be from ireland, faked an accent, faked his name, said he didn't have kids. To me that is purely insane. He made dating pages and was talking to several women. She was just the first one who wanted to meet up. Everytime he lies and gambles I am in turmoil over everything all over again. He also watches inappropriate content he doesnt do it as often but still does it. He always searches teen inappropriate content so he can watch 18 and 19 year olds or women in their 20s who lool younger. I am 8 years younger than him already. He is in his 30s I am in my 20s. I pretty much dont know why I want to work it out anymore. He promises to change but nothing changes. He can only keep up the act for so long then he starts doing everything again. I know god doesnt like divorce and I am so broken. I am so unhappy. I had two nightmares in a row last night he was cheating on me and then being cold hearted to me. I have nightmares like that a lot. I dont know what God wants me to do? I am dying inside. I hate my life with him. I love him but hate what he is doing to me. So man lies on top of lies. I feel like if I divorced him I would want to die and he would maybe actually kill himself. I am so lost and in despair. I feel so alone in this. I have to hide it from everyone. I am tired of lying for him. I am tired of feeling so awful. I have been disrespected and he just wants it to be fine. I love him and hate him. I feel like God is punishing me. What should I do?