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Should I Divorce

GrowingSmaller

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I don't understand I am not divorcing over my child
Sorry you implied your child was mentally wanting and you wouldn't want any more like him...

Sorry to hear of the hard times though. Must be a tough decision. I never been married.
 
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Sorry you implied your child was mentally wanting and you wouldn't want any more like him...

Sorry to hear of the hard times though. Must be a tough decision. I never been married.
No I said I believe my husband and his family may have some sort of mental issues of course I wouldn't want to have more children with him but that is not the main reason he is flirting with other women disrespectful and thinks it was normal. I love my son and he is improving and will overcome it.
 
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No I said I believe my husband and his family may have some sort of mental issues of course I wouldn't want to have more children with him but that is not the main reason he is flirting with other women disrespectful and thinks it was normal. I love my son and he is improving and will overcome it.
I think by asking this question. You don't feel right being with your husband. And the way he acts. You cant live with someone you don't trust. I think you will eventfully leave. It might be the healthiest decision.
 
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GrowingSmaller

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Its a toughie but religious rules on marriage - there is a general consensus across groups - tent to be against divorce. Atheists tend to think "God is a silly idea, therefore religious rules are just as crazy". But that s a non sequitur (ie it doesn't follow).

What Id do is try to chat with your hubbie about it. Maybe he can change his habits?

First focus on trying to salvage the marriage, then divorce as a final option maybe.
 
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Do not divorce. This is not biblical if you divorce for other than unchastity or a leaving spousspouse. Also remember that remarriage is only valid if an unbelieving spouse leaves. You made a commitment before God and need to honor it.
 
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