should i call her?

[fieldy]

last saturday i met this girl and apparently she likes me. She came up to me and made that very clear. We hung out that night and we ended up going to her friend's house after. She gave me a ride home and when Iwas about to get out she asked me if we were ever going to see each other again. I said: "yeah,uhhhh want my number?". I gave her my number but I didnt get hers. I think the reason I didnt jump at the chance of getting her number was because I was afraid she might be a bit "******". I was foolish enough before to get attached to a girl like that before and I dont want to make the same mistake again.

Today is thursday and I dont think she called me. The way I look at it is that she thinks I'm not interested. The truth is I dont know if I'm intereseted. I don't anything about her. Would it really hurt to just get to know her? Does anyone think it would be a good idea for me to call one of her friends for her number??? I think I might see her saturday but I dont know.

 

[revelations12_12]

last saturday i met this girl and apparently she likes me. She came up to me and made that very clear. We hung out that night and we ended up going to her friend's house after. She gave me a ride home and when Iwas about to get out she asked me if we were ever going to see each other again. I said: "yeah,uhhhh want my number?". I gave her my number but I didnt get hers. I think the reason I didnt jump at the chance of getting her number was because I was afraid she might be a bit "******". I was foolish enough before to get attached to a girl like that before and I dont want to make the same mistake again.

Today is thursday and I dont think she called me. The way I look at it is that she thinks I'm not interested. The truth is I dont know if I'm intereseted. I don't anything about her. Would it really hurt to just get to know her? Does anyone think it would be a good idea for me to call one of her friends for her number??? I think I might see her saturday but I dont know.

I think getting her number from a friend is perfectly ok, sounds like you got a good sign. It can never hurt to get to know someone, if you end up not liking her and want to get out of it pm me and I have 1001 reasons why you can no longer see her, and they all spare hurt feelings

 

[revelations12_12]

later in life we only regret the opportunities missed, do not pass up any oportunities for adventure and life lessons at your age. Jump man while you still can!

 

[gord44]

whatever....do what you gotta do....wouldn't hurt to call I spose

 

[wildthing]

Give her a call... It won't hurt ya...

 

[awbree]

I don't see what it would hurt if you got to know her. I say ask for her number.

 

[Tenorvoice]

If you want to learn how to swin you have to jump in the water first. You will never know how she feels unless you ask her. I would find out what her # is and give her a call.

God Bless

 

[JPPT1974]

First go to the Lord and ask Him if He wants you to call her or not. Pray long and hard about it. As well as also do the Lord's will and way. Don't compromise His will and plans for you. Because His ways are always right. We will also be praying for you as well.

 

[fieldy]

thanks for your input, really. I think I'm gonna see her tonight. I guess it can't hurt to just know her. The reason why I kinda hesitated to call her before is probably because I stopped believing in all this boyfriend/girlfriend thing.

 

[seangoh]

get her number man. one more thing, you got to find out whether u're REALLY interested in her or just mesmerized by her charm just because she's after you. Be very careful to differentiate between them. Because you would want to be REALLY attracted to a girl rather than being passive. If you find out you're not attracted to her then move on, it saves your marriage. get what i mean?

 

[Talie]

later in life we only regret the opportunities missed

this is SO not true! there are sooooo many opportunities in life i'm thankful I passed up AND there are opportunities i DIDN'T miss that i DO regret

 

[revelations12_12]

this is SO not true! there are sooooo many opportunities in life i'm thankful I passed up AND there are opportunities i DIDN'T miss that i DO regret

maybe it is a guy thing?

 

[Talie]

no, i doubt it's a guy thing either - anybody realistically would realise the same things I mentioned if they took a moment to think about it