Hockeysistah,
The internet has it's good sides and bad sides. I use it completely for dating because of my ability to leave the house, and have tried every dating place there is! I haven't discussed my beliefs with these men, because whether they are christian or not, does not affect my beliefs. As long as they aren't satanic or abusive, I am satisfied.
Overall, internet dating is quicker because you aren't stuck on a date with them, and they won't know where you work or live. Spend many weeks talking to them, emailing, phoning them (from a mobile or silent number only), then offer meeting for a meal, paying separate bills.
The places I've found the most genuine people are:
yahoo or MSN interests groups
love listings
or Friend Finder, which have an afiliate called church friend finder.
You may have some luck, you may have none.
Dating online means caution, and being flippant. You have to question what you're told and not let emotions get involved UNTIL you've thoroughly assessed them. How you ask? I'll give you some tips
1 If they mention sex in the first 20minutes, get rid of them. Same goes if they mention nude photos
2 If they mention casual sex or a one-nighter, say you're saving yourself for marriage, whether it's true or not. Closet-promiscuity can be shown up by asking them their impressions on marriage. They call this unnecessary & leave
3 NEVER give out personal details. I've had men TRY and get my bank details, but they can do many criminal acts with your full name, address, phone number and birthdate
4 Only give a phone number which is silent or to a mobile phone
5 Ask their job. NEVER date a man who asks how much you earn. There are men out there looking for a free ride. Express you prefer equality, or tradition
6 Don't meet a man until you've talked at least six months, no matter how close he lives. Rushing into something can be dangerous.
7 Ask about ex-partners & friends in person. Listen and watch for any emotional changes, such as anger, lust or secrecy.
8 Ask about family, particularly their mother. A man who doesn't respect his mother, won't respect you! Excluding abused men of course.
9 Meet them with a very attractive friend. Watch to see how they balance their attention between you. Leave them alone while you get refreshments and see if he's the type to flirt or cheat
10 Call their home unannounced to check there isn't a wife
11 Last of all, pay an investigator to check for marriage certificates, and their name against the home address they gave you. I wish I'd done this with my ex... married jerk. It might cost you $100, but it'll save you a lot
On the net, there are liars, frauds and fools. Being anonyymous, they can be blatant in all these, so keep an eye out for anything unusual. Question everything you are told. Don't promise yourself to anything!
I can't say certain places are wrong to meet men, because I have met some beautiful people everywhere, even in chatrooms! Many of them would be wonderful husbands, but for me weren't suitable because of my medical limitations.
Good luck, have faith, and take people on first impressions! If the first discussion is slimey, or feels wrong, hit the ignore button. That's what they are for!
Oh, one last tip. When giving men photos, give them the worst you have! The less attractive you look, the less-shallow the men you'll find sticking around. The bonus is if they get with you, they'll feel even more blessed! For me, I give a picture of when I shaved my head. I look no different to now, but my hair has grown back. This weeds out shallow men, who normally call me a "dyke b....." and leave. Saves me the trouble!
Best wishes,
S
As this is a singles' board, I suspect most of us haven't found a true love anywhere yet. Other than Jesus of course 
