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Sharing Christmas.....

Mickey1953

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I hope others will post things about Christmas that is special to them. A card, a story, picture...please share.

If this has been shared before and I have missed it; I apologize. It was given to us at church today.....simply something to think about....


Dear Children,

It has come to my attention that many of you are upset that folks are taking My name out of the season. Maybe you've forgotten that I wasn't actually born during this time of the year and that it was some of your predecessors who decided to celebrate My birthday on what was actually a time of pagan festival (although I do appreciate being remembered anytime).

How I personally feel about this celebration can probably be most easily understood by those of you who have been blessed with children of your own. I don't care what you call the day. If you want to celebrate My birth, just GET ALONG AND LOVE ONE ANOTHER. Now, having said that, let Me go on.

If it bothers you that the town you live in doesn't allow a scene depicting My birth, just get rid of a couple of Santas and snowmen and put in a small Nativity scene on your own front lawn. If all My followers did that, there wouldn't be a need for such a scene on the town square because there would be so many of them all around town.

Stop worrying about people calling the tree a Holiday tree, instead of a Christmas tree. I made all the trees. You can remember Me any time you see any tree. Decorate a grape vine if you wish. (I actually spoke of that one in a teaching explaining who I am in relation to you, and what each of our tasks were. If you have forgotten that one, look up John 15:1-8.)

If you want to give Me a present in remembrance of My birth, here is My wish list. Choose something from it.

1. Instead of writing protest letters objecting to the way My birthday is being celebrated, write letters of love and hope to soldiers away from home. They are terribly afraid, and lonely this time of year. I know, they tell Me all the time.

2. Visit someone in a nursing home. You don't have to know them personally. They just need to know that someone cares about them.

3. Instead of writing your President complaining about the wording on the cards his staff sent out this year, why don't you write and tell him that you'll be praying for him and his family? Then follow up. (It will be nice to hear from you again.)

4. Instead of giving your children a lot of gifts you can't afford and they don't need, spend time with them. Tell them the story of My birth, and why I came to live with you down here. Hold them in your arms and remind them that I love them.

5. Pick someone that has hurt you in the past and forgive them.

6. Did you know that someone in your town will attempt to take their own life this season because they feel so alone and hopeless? Since you don't know who that person is, try giving everyone you meet a warm smile. It could make the difference. Also, you might consider supporting the local Hotline: they talk with people like that every day.

7. Instead of nit-picking about what the retailer in your town calls the holiday, be patient with the people who work there. Give them a warm smile and a kind word. Even if they aren't allowed to wish you a “Merry Christmas,” that doesn't keep you from wishing them one. Then stop shopping there on Sunday. If the store didn't make so much money on that day they'd close and let their employees spend the day at home with their families.

8. If you really want to make a difference, support a missionary — especially one who takes My love and good news to those who have never heard My name. You may already know someone like that.

9. Here's a good one. There are individuals and whole families in your town who not only will have no “Christmas” tree, but neither will they have any presents to give or receive. If you don't know them (and I suspect you don't) buy some food and a few gifts and give them to the Marines, Salvation Army or some other charity and they will make the delivery for you.

10. Finally if you want to make a statement about your belief in and loyalty to Me, then behave like a Christian. Don't do things in secret that you wouldn't do in My presence. Let people know by your actions that you are one of Mine.

Don't forget — I am God, and can take care of Myself. You don't have to protect or defend me. Just love Me, mind your own business, and do what I have told you to do. I'll take care of all the rest. Check out the list above and get to work; time is short. I'll help, but the ball is now in your court. And do have a most blessed Christmas with all those whom you love and remember....


I LOVE YOU!!!!
Jesus



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This little girl, Dora, and her first Christmas tree in 2003. Actually she was so new that everything was her "first one."

For me?

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I can get back here, too?

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It's mine, I redecorate.
(I don't even know what that means.)

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Mickey1953

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This little girl, Dora, and her first Christmas tree in 2003. Actually she was so new that everything was her "first one."

For me?

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I can get back here, too?

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It's mine, I redecorate.
(I don't even know what that means.)

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So cute!!!!!!
 
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...I don't know. Was raised thinking it was all about the presents, when that goes away, it's not so special. Kind of sad, eh?

I went through that too Ishida. :hug:

You can get the joy back. Focus on what it truly means - a celebration of the birth of our savior. Ignore the rest and remember that the person who changed your life was born. How do you feel on your best friend's birthday? Do you celebrate with him/her, have fun at the party? It can take time, but the joy will return.
 
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When I think of what our Lord endured on the Cross for mankind, it seems an easy thing to think that He would be happy to see children getting presents on His birthday, too.

His presents were brought by the Magi, they were frankenscence and myrhh.

Can you see Jesus frowning at Santa Claus bringing toys and laughter to little children throughout the years?

And it is all that and much, much more. Always has been and, with luck, it always will be.
 
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When I think of what our Lord endured on the Cross for mankind, it seems an easy thing to think that He would be happy to see children getting presents on His birthday, too.

His presents were brought by the Magi, they were frankenscence and myrhh.

Can you see Jesus frowning at Santa Claus bringing toys and laughter to little children throughout the years?

And it is all that and much, much more. Always has been and, with luck, it always will be.

I had not thought of that.... bless you Latreia... I cannot see Jesus frowning...


 
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Our Christmas includes not so many presents as years goes by.....

Though I enjoy a present as much as my children....Our family has grown so much and presents have became more of a burden financially, so we have done less. But, what has made presents a blessing is to see my children buy presents for familes that would otherwise not have much for Christmas. That is a gift to me to see their hearts with the knowledge & love of Jesus, and to share their blessings.

I still enjoy the Christmas season.... I decorate... though that is less... but it is still pretty... and some of our neighbors still have beautiful lights to share. We changed our family gathering to what we call Christmas Eve Eve....so my husband and I can sing at our Christmas Eve service.... not great voices, but I love to sing. And my grand children join me in a tune too!!!!! What fun! And I believe Jesus does not mind the song is jingle bells. It is just wonderful to me that they are at church (it means my son & my beautiful daughter in law share faith in Jesus). They sing with me on our little platform at church in front of many, sharing their sweet faces and voices in a place where Jesus is worshipped and honored. I am blessed.

I collected Santas in the past, and again it is something that I show, but do not buy anymore. We have stockings on the fireplace & a plate with cookie crumbs... though the story of Saint Nicholas is who they all know is where he originated from...
but it is just done...and the silly note 'he' leaves, gets a chuckle or two & a memory.... It usually includes something about unconditional love.

We share our table during the holidays with friends and strangers. My husband & I believes no one should be alone...Our house maybe crowded... but it is full of fellowship & love in the name of our Savior.

And grandchildren... what fun we have or try to have without being stepped on, in the little corners of the house.
I am blessed to share their lives. There is only one that I visit that I lay flowers at her memorial stone... but for her I am thankful too. I learned a great lesson in love with her short life.

Another great gift is, I still share closeness with all my children & they all have accepted Jesus into their lives... (though I would ask for prayer if I may for my senior daughter in college, who has many questions & been given many things to challenge her faith)....but here we are. In a world so big, but blessed with a warm, old house. A fire to burn in our fireplace & lots of true love to share... and though my daughter has been thinking and wondering, I can freely share Jesus Christ, I have money to buy groceries at our local stores, when I turn on the faucets - water runs, & we have never seen war in our small little village.

I fall short when it comes to many things...but my heart belongs to Jesus, and hopefully that comes through my humaness of being Mickey...


 
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I went through that too Ishida. :hug:

You can get the joy back. Focus on what it truly means - a celebration of the birth of our savior. Ignore the rest and remember that the person who changed your life was born. How do you feel on your best friend's birthday? Do you celebrate with him/her, have fun at the party? It can take time, but the joy will return.
Don't really have a best friend, all mine don't really contact me on their birthdays (Not their fault, I don't contact anyone on ...that day..) so I don't feel anything. Birthdays went the same route as Christmas when I turned 18 (I deserved it..) , but I will try. Thanks. :)
 
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How sad is it that it took loosing a (step) son before I understood the sacrifice that God made sending His son to die for our sins. And in that realization it also sunk in how the birth of our Lord was prophecy fulfilled - how amazing it must have been to be alive to see God's word manifest during one's lifetime!!:bow: I mean, I don't believe that everyone who turned their eyes towards the stars realized they were witnessing the Northern Star leading the wise men to Jesus but I hope they knew what they had seen before they died! Did anyone understand what they had witnessed when Jesus went to the synagogue as a child? :amen:

It's all sunk into me and nearly overwhelms me at times. Praise God for His love! :clap:Praise God for His forgiveness!:clap: I feel so unworthy yet I know that He loves me. Loosing Josh seems to have stripped distraction from my eyes (and I'm not trying to say that he alone created that distraction...but he tried, God love him!).Christmas is the anniversary of the beginning of the greatest gift mankind has ever received. This year I feel a special fellowship with every Christian on Earth...and I thank all of you for that. God Bless. :groupray:
 
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Luke 2:1-7
[2:1] In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. [2] (This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) [3] And everyone went to his own town to register.
[4] So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. [5] He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. [6] While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, [7] and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.
 
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Christmas was always the time all our family got together... at least 10 of us. That was back when life was easier and families still stayed together. I'm glad for those memories... makes me realize that "better days" is a reality. Even tho things have changed greatly in the past 40+ yrs, the memories and love of those days never dies in my heart. I'm so anxious to see those family members already in paradise. It's been such a long time. I'm sure they still share our joy every Christmas.

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ps: just imagine how great it is to be able to celebrate Christmas in heaven... with Jesus.
 
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Christmas was always the time all our family got together... at least 10 of us. That was back when life was easier and families still stayed together. I'm glad for those memories... makes me realize that "better days" is a reality. Even tho things have changed greatly in the past 40+ yrs, the memories and love of those days never dies in my heart. I'm so anxious to see those family members already in paradise. It's been such a long time. I'm sure they still share our joy every Christmas.

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ps: just imagine how great it is to be able to celebrate Christmas in heaven... with Jesus.

Thank you for sharing this...memories are what we share and leave behind in hearts. And with all the busyness..Thank you for reminding me....it is a wonderful thing to enjoy the days with family and friends. It is what we have now....and as you said, 'the memories and love never dies in our hearts.'


 
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