Sex

[Lovelife43]

Hey everyone, this post is kind of personally so I'm just letting you know up front.
I am looking for some advice, when it comes to sex in marriage, what are somethings that you all do to keep the flame going? Is it wrong that my husband and I film ourselves, talk dirty or just be wild with one another? Are there limits that we should stay in with our sex life or is the passion we have OK? We keep our sex life private and do not share our pictures or videos, everything we do is just between us. Is it wrong to have such strong sexual desire or should it be contained??

 

[Jane_Doe]

Hey everyone, this post is kind of personally so I'm just letting you know up front.
I am looking for some advice, when it comes to sex in marriage, what are somethings that you all do to keep the flame going? Is it wrong that my husband and I film ourselves, talk dirty or just be wild with one another? Are there limits that we should stay in with our sex life or is the passion we have OK? We keep our sex life private and do not share our pictures or videos, everything we do is just between us. Is it wrong to have such strong sexual desire or should it be contained??

Sex is between you two (and God, but in a different way). If it's staying that way (aka it's just you and him, and God approves), then that is good in my view.

 

[LostFarmer]

We keep our sex life private and do not share our pictures or videos

You hope. You will not be the first to say that, but some finds out later it is not true. sorry to say.
I do not disagree with Jane_Doe.

 

[Darkhorse]

Keeping the flame going involves avoiding the attitude of sex being the "same old same-old". You need to spice it up with different positions, different locations, different activities, etc., but in a natural, enjoyable way, not obsessively. You need a combination of spontaneous and predictable, which can change each time.

Of course, you and your spouse will have your favorites, but be open to new possibilities, and try to avoid everything being predictable. Sometimes new things don't work out, and both of you should be able to laugh about it in each other's arms...

That's love.

 

[Yanni depp]

I would pray about it.

 

[LinkH]

If you have kids, it's probably a good idea to have some kind of plans set up unless mom and dad pass away. If you've got sex videos, and the kids get ahold of it.... need I say more.

I suppose videos of yourself 30 years down the road could be interesting to look at, but you never know when you'll both die, and then the idea that the kids might inadvertently discover the videos....

 

[Kindled]

Hey everyone, this post is kind of personally so I'm just letting you know up front.
I am looking for some advice, when it comes to sex in marriage, what are somethings that you all do to keep the flame going? Is it wrong that my husband and I film ourselves, talk dirty or just be wild with one another? Are there limits that we should stay in with our sex life or is the passion we have OK? We keep our sex life private and do not share our pictures or videos, everything we do is just between us. Is it wrong to have such strong sexual desire or should it be contained??

I think as long as it is in fact just between you and your husband and only you two watch the videos there's nothing wrong with it. And no its not wrong to have strong sexual desires as long as those desires are for your spouse.

 

[OK Jeff]

Wife and I videotaped ourselves one time. Now we haven't a clue where it is. We laugh about that fact but the concern mentioned above could apply some day. I agree that anything a married couple does, so long as it isn't coerced, doesn't involve other people, and isn't prioritized before God, it's good.

 

[Dave-W]

Is it wrong to have such strong sexual desire or should it be contained??

Not wrong at all; and the only containment is to keep it between the two of you.

And since the OP is your first post, welcome to the forums!

 

[Larniavc]

Hey everyone, this post is kind of personally so I'm just letting you know up front.
I am looking for some advice, when it comes to sex in marriage, what are somethings that you all do to keep the flame going? Is it wrong that my husband and I film ourselves, talk dirty or just be wild with one another? Are there limits that we should stay in with our sex life or is the passion we have OK? We keep our sex life private and do not share our pictures or videos, everything we do is just between us. Is it wrong to have such strong sexual desire or should it be contained??

No it is not wrong.

 

[.Mikha'el.]

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