serious question...

[emilina22]

i was just wondering how many are still virgins?

i know this may be personal but were all adults so if you want to answer than please do...

and i just dont understand while people say its so hard to stay a virgin and if you are its a shocking fact....

any opinions?

im still a virgin and so is my boyfriend weve been together for almost 6 years no sex ever and im proud of that!!!

 

[JesusFreak78]

Yes, I'm still a virgin.

I don't understand when people say it is hard either. If you want to honor God and keep your focus on Him it is not hard at all.

Sex is something wonderful and intimate thing between husband and wife and is not supposed to be thrown away on the first person you find.

 

[peanutbutter12]

I'm married, so no. I'm no monk.

 

[gailygirl]

I'm a virgin, but it definitely isn't all that easy for me! I'm very much looking forward to having sex, and I love kissing my bf. I always wish we could do more. We both have to be careful to remember our boundaries so we don't get carried away, but sometimes it isn't easy to hold ourselves to that.

 

[LonesomeTexan]

Virgin by God's grace. A couple years ago I would of gladly had sex with a good looking female. Now I don't really care what other people think. And I think it's easier than we'd like to think to fall into sin. I know how great it must feel to have sex.

 

[heatherq17]

not a virgin.

 

[BeautifulDestiny09]

I am one but really only by technicalities...which to me means I might as well not be one...I mean really, how many of us can say we're TRULY virgins? I really only learned about a year ago that being a virgin and being pure is more than just not having sex...I know SO many ppl who are virgins but constantly push the envelope to see how far they can go without having sex...I know, because that used to be me. NOW, its more about preserving something precious and sacred for marriage...eaiser said than done, though.

 

[intricatic]

Not a virgin, but I had a long rough patch before God called me back. Been basically celibate since, though.

 

[MrsSeptemberPenguin]

Still a virgin, and plan on staying that way till I'm married. A good way to stay away from temptations is to avoid situations where you might be tempted (eg. a lot of time alone together), staying in the Word and praying, ect. It's not always easy, but it's possible.

 

[abacoian]

I'm a virgin, getting married in September and am glad I waited

 

[Braticus]

Yes, I'm still a virgin. I have full intentions on staying that way until I'm married. I'm so happy that I didn't throw it away. I agree with Jesusfreak78, sex is something that a husband and wife share.

 

[Windmill]

i was just wondering how many are still virgins?

i know this may be personal but were all adults so if you want to answer than please do...

and i just dont understand while people say its so hard to stay a virgin and if you are its a shocking fact....

any opinions?

im still a virgin and so is my boyfriend weve been together for almost 6 years no sex ever and im proud of that!!!

Well, me and my BF just got together, but I'm a virgin... and I am finding it very easy to stay one (as is he) yet those around us (I though am surrounded by atheists) tell me its insanely hard to stay one- and, if we were to ever get married, that would be 8 years down the track, and people are shocked that we'd be willing to stay virgins for so long!



I honestly don't know why.

 

[abacoian]

Well, me and my BF just got together, but I'm a virgin... and I am finding it very easy to stay one (as is he) yet those around us (I though am surrounded by atheists) tell me its insanely hard to stay one- and, if we were to ever get married, that would be 8 years down the track, and people are shocked that we'd be willing to stay virgins for so long!



I honestly don't know why.

24 is the magic number huh?

 

[~BelovedDaughter~]

I was until almost 2 years ago...I'm currently dating a wonderful guy now (not the same guy I did it with), and he is amazing at helping us both stay as pure as we can!

 

[lovesbrightpink]

im not, I didnt know god when I lost it....I wish that I would have waited.....but it was with my fiance so I dont feel as bad about it.

 

[ValiantForTruth]

I am. I have not even kissed a girl. I plan to have my first kiss after the preacher says, "I now pronounce you man and wife."

 

[abacoian]

I am. I have not even kissed a girl. I plan to have my first kiss after the preacher says, "I now pronounce you man and wife."

you should wait for him to say you may now kiss the bride

 

[ValiantForTruth]

LOL my sister and her husband did not even have a kiss at the end of their wedding. It was my sister's first kiss and she did not want to do it in front of everybody. Only one person said anything

 

[Windmill]

24 is the magic number huh?

Its the minimum most likely. We'd need to be able to support ourselves. We both are very smart and plan to obtain doctrites (Mine in classics, his in philosophy) so, you know, we'd be dirt poor. After our masters we'd have more jobs open to us to do while doing our PhD in lectures and what not, so if we wanted, we could get married and be able to support ourselves.

 

[Beautiful Fireball]

Its the minimum most likely. We'd need to be able to support ourselves. We both are very smart and plan to obtain doctrites (Mine in classics, his in philosophy) so, you know, we'd be dirt poor. After our masters we'd have more jobs open to us to do while doing our PhD in lectures and what not, so if we wanted, we could get married and be able to support ourselves.

Just be careful. You can't really plan what is going to happen 8 years down the road. You will change a TON between now and then, and there is going to be no way that you can know that that is how your life is going to be. Just be careful and make sure you leave yourselves open to where God is gonna lead you.