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Seperated???I'm paying for everything. What to do?

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I had my concerns about another man in the beginnig. Faithful is drawing that from my previous threads and other conversations. As of right now I do not think that another man is an issue. I am taking all of the advice under consideration.

Faithful thank you for your scripture based opinion. I know that there are things that I am going to have to continue paying for because I am in the military. I have started putting extra money into an account that she does not have access to. I am being very honest with her about how I feel and why am doing what I am doing. I don't want her to think that I am hiding anything. So far she dosen't even seem to care. I told her in email because I don't want to ruin every phone conversation. I know that she has read the email but she dosen't respond to it. So I really don't know what she thinks about it.

Thank You Everyone. I appreciate your advice and your supporting prayers.
 
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