Selfishness & pregnancy

[llghoney]

I don't mind my hubby doing things he still enjoys but c'mon he knows on Sundays it's church & that I was probably going.

Anywho, here's another crazy thing: I bought a toilet seat & low & behold the thing is too small for the toilet. Well, he put it on anyways & it is still on and I've bought another one which has been sitting next to the toilet for weeks. I have asked him nicely several times to please put the new sweat on. Has he? NO! Has he had time, YES! Maybe I should video everyday how long it's going to take him to put the darn thing on. I have tried & tried several times to put it on myself but I can't manage to maneuver my body to get it off.

 

[Neenie1]

LOL, yes I relate.

You know I think it just gets to the stage where I say "this needs to be done, when is the best time for you to do it?" I tend to set a deadline, otherwise it won't get done and he just gets annoyed with me asking all the time.

 

[llghoney]

How can you set a deadline? You better do this by this or........? And on that it then becomes that I'm just worried aoubt the toilet seat & nagging if I ask him over & over. SO much fun!

 

[heart of peace]

Why not hire a handyman and if he gets irritated explain that you waited on him but he didn't manage to get around to it so instead of nagging him, you found an alternative way to getting it changed.

 

[Neenie1]

How can you set a deadline? You better do this by this or........? And on that it then becomes that I'm just worried aoubt the toilet seat & nagging if I ask him over & over. SO much fun!

No it doesn't because you have discussed when the best time to do it is and he knows he is expected to do it. Then it doesn't get brought up again unless it is left undone. Simple.

 

[llghoney]

I did tell him I was gonna hire someone. That doesn't phase him. He said he'll have it on before I go into labor. I'm just trying to block it outta my mind because it's one of those things that drives me crazzzzzy!

 

[Leanna]

I am married to a procrastinator too. Blah!

 

[Leanna]

I am married to a procrastinator too. Blah!