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Probably not... they engaged in vigorous debates, studied and restudied issues... they were not afraid to look at their beliefs and there were no sacred cows.... today that is not the case in all places....

When they came upon agreement that was where they stopped.

You and others here want to re-invent the wheel on CF.

We know what we believe, there is nothing wrong in asking but it seems as though you do not want to accept what the brethren has come up with which is what you accepted when you were baptized.
 
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Look, people, if I came off as though I'm filled with pride, it was an accident.

This is what I believe. By saying its prideful, you need to explain to me, how was what I said filled with pride? WHAT did I say?

I'm young, which means that I'M STILL GROWING.

Please stop attacking me, and rather, EXPLAIN, because I am CONFUSED. Now, I really must go, but please stop the attacks and explain how what I said was prideful? It came straight from the bible.
 
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Cliff when I joined the church at 9 yrs old, there were no 27 fundamental beliefs....The process of formulating and adopting statements of fundamental beliefs didn't start until the late 70's early 80s.....1980 to be exact.... I had already been a member for 10 years before they (the 27 fundies) came out....
 
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Did you agree to the doctrines of what is on the bapsimal certificate.

They would have been very similar to the "27".

I doubt if they would have changed.

If they have tell me which of the "27" is additional ones now.
 
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Cliff2 said:
Did you agree to the doctrines of what is on the bapsimal certificate.

They would have been very similar to the "27".

I doubt if they would have changed.

If they have tell me which of the "27" is additional ones now.

You missed the point... and I am tired of beating this dead horse.... moving on....
 
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Cliff2 said:
Did you agree to the doctrines of what is on the bapsimal certificate.

They would have been very similar to the "27".

I doubt if they would have changed.

If they have tell me which of the "27" is additional ones now.
Cliff, do you know why the law does not hold minors to the terms of any contract? I draw your attention to Stormy's claim that he was baptised at the age of 9. That should answer all your questions.
 
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Cliff, don't you think that if we had gotten it correct so long ago that God would have returned by now? Is not the fact that we are still here "fighting the good fight of faith" sufficient evidence that at least something is off kilter? Don't we have a responsibility before God to look at the engine again to determine where it may be misfiring?
 
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Keep her in your prayers, Payattention.... I will.
 
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The leaders back then got it basically right, it is us that has left the blueprint that was given to us.

It is not their fault, it is ours, it is us that have done the wondering. Following Babylon, getting into bed with the world.

We need to look at ourselves and get a new glimse of what it means to really "follow the lamb"
 
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The leaders back then got it basically right, it is us that has left the blueprint that was given to us.
When a bridge is basically sound you have to inspect the entire bridge unless you know exactly where the problem lies. You don't seem to know where the problem lies yet you are averse to inspecting the entire corpus. How do you know that the problem with the structure is actually foundational?
 
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I wouldn't know, I'm not the one that sees any problems with the "foundation" to begin with.

But keep digging, I'm sure you'll turn something up.
 
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I wouldn't know, I'm not the one that sees any problems with the "foundation" to begin with.

But keep digging, I'm sure you'll turn something up.
So, where does that leave us? If we are still in this mess and we are not at fault, who is to blame? I think in all of this we are missing the big picture. It is not about which of us is right and which is wrong. The earth is filled with the remains of people who died on one or either side of this divide and we are still here.
 
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That is a bit of a stretch there. Considering that most kids are busy engaged in pleasure at her age, let us be glad she has a burden for the word of the Lord at all. Were not most of us more rigid when we first started out? She is simply finding out a great many things. That is a good thing. She has time later to have all the doubts etc. that age sometimes brings. Let her become grounded in the essentials of the truth first, and she will have time later to look at all the nuances.

Also, age in itself is not always a teacher as we are reminded in Hebrews:


I too see some inflexibility in Windmill, but no more than I see in myself during those first years of faith.

And this is where this conversation is proven to be detrimental. We are attacking the ones we ought to be nurturing, and dictating to ones that we have no business dictating to.

Yes, we all took an oath when we joined the church. I still stand by my oath. But that does not mean that some of the things in that oath might not be questionable as to whether they should be required.

EGW for instance said that her writings should NOT be a test of fellowship. But most of the baptismal certificates I see make them one. Should they? Why should we use her writings in a way she did not intend?

As any institution goes from movement to institution, from mission, to policy, there are those who want to tighten the reigns to make sure everyone stays in line. Why not rather energize the mission, the passion for the truth that will bring its own reform?

And I firmly believe that that reform will include investigation.

Please ponder the following statements from the 5th volume of the testimonies:

 
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Someone who has influence ought to take her aside and help her understand the impact of what she is posting among a group of adults. Her age does not come across the net, for she is spouting ideas that also come from the pen of adults, as we have seen from those who misguidedly cheer her on. The ideas must be challenged if they reflect a spirit that is not of Christ.

I am pleased that she is enamored of the word, but I also know of many young minds that have been wrongly indoctrinated. I prefer a thinking young mind than a conforming young mind.
 
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yes, but if you are beating on her you can never be that person. You will have NO influence on her. which is my point. The church passed on not just doctrine, but they were spiritual parents. Paul took Timothy under his wing. Now doubtless he corrected him many times. But he also loved him as a father.

For that matter you could plainly see in Timothy the ideas of Paul. it is MEANT to be that way. He said "remember those from whom you learned it", ie Paul wanted Timothy not just to study for himself...which he said, but to remember the examples of those around him who were following God.

You are right to point out the need for study. But you must also give encouragement for the fact that she is not off reading Harry Potter or something.

I agree with one thing, that error has a right to be confronted. But the nature in which that is done is always tailored to the ones promoting it.
 
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On the button!
 
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I did not claim to have influence over her. My remarks were directed at those who have influence over her. It is obvious that none of them has spoken to her privately judging by the posts I have read. My first post on this forum was posted this weekend. Why have they left her like this?
 
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I realize that you have good intentions, but we tried to be patient with her, and it didn't work.

She insulted us repeatedly by implying that we aren't true SDAs.

What makes you think that this response would be any different if you wrote to her in private?

If that is what you want to do, then go ahead and do it. Be her mentor. She needs one, as we all do.

But don't try to put a guilt trip on us because we didn't do it your way.

You have no right to do that!
 
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