bhsmte
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Okay, can't help myself. This is an important point.
Other people can read. First I'd ask if you think your perspective is the right one just because you have it. And notice that me going off the deep end by defending myself is completely irrelevant to the argument, and also presupposes an ad hominem by you.
But more importantly, even if everyone saw like you did and your view was unambiguously correct, I say: so what? My point is that, regardless of whether you see me correctly or not in a certain way, using labels for me only negates who I am. Hence Kierkegaard could say, "if you label me, you negate me." Even if your labels are "correct", they don't come close to summarizing me; quite the opposite, they're much more likely to poison the well.
Here is where I believe the problem lies between conversations between believers and non-believers, when believers are trying to explain why the believe what they do:
From my observations, believers seem to have a very difficult time admitting; they don't know, or they are not clear on something and they tend to claim they do know and start speculating this or that, based on a bunch of assumptions. Now, I understand why this happens and the need a believer would have to try and solidify their belief in this way. The problem comes in, when these ideas are challenged and challenged objectively and they don't do very well. Then defensiveness sets in and things start to get out of hand.
IMO, it is the sign of a healthy mind, when someone can admit; they simply don't know. It is also a good sign, when someone is willing to change their mind on something, when they acquire new knowledge, they did not possess before.
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