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dramaking

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Does anyone ever get upset when people make sarcastic comments about your writing? Has anyone ever made a sarcastive comment about your writing?
Yes, it drives me up a wall. Bothers me most when they pick out everything I did wrong and shred me with it. They're fairly sarcastic about it. It's always the same people I hear it from.
 
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sunstruckdream

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Yes, it drives me up a wall. Bothers me most when they pick out everything I did wrong and shred me with it. They're fairly sarcastic about it. It's always the same people I hear it from.
You need to find some kinder readers! When people are just plain mean and unhelpful, no one benefits.
 
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dramaking

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You need to find some kinder readers! When people are just plain mean and unhelpful, no one benefits.
I have two kinds of critics, honest and sweet. The sweet ones tell me I'm spectacular, the honest ones tell me I suck. The honest one's just happen to have more credibility on em! ;)
 
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sunstruckdream

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I have two kinds of critics, honest and sweet. The sweet ones tell me I'm spectacular, the honest ones tell me I suck. The honest one's just happen to have more credibility on em! ;)
Well, one can be honest while still being kind...
 
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Critique of one's work is the hardest to accept.

You shouldn't take it personally, but use the critique to build upon and improve your work.

Yeah, but blatantly insulting comments disguised as constructive criticism aren't necessary.

PE, you need to find some kinder readers! Not ones that tell you you're amazing, but readers who tell you what you need to improve upon in a direct but tactful way. My family is great for this kind of criticism--they'll read what I write and point out strong areas and weak ones, tell me what I need to do to make the story stronger, and tell me what they like. Except for my sister; she always tells me that whatever I write is incredible. ;)
 
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Yeah, but blatantly insulting comments disguised as constructive criticism aren't necessary.

PE, you need to find some kinder readers! Not ones that tell you you're amazing, but readers who tell you what you need to improve upon in a direct but tactful way. My family is great for this kind of criticism--they'll read what I write and point out strong areas and weak ones, tell me what I need to do to make the story stronger, and tell me what they like. Except for my sister; she always tells me that whatever I write is incredible. ;)
I have a friend who always tells me that my work is amazing - and I think every writer should have one or two of those to keep their self-esteem up during editing and getting criticism; I know I need it.

I had a short story writing teacher once who made a lot of sarcastic comments on my papers, and I actually liked it. But are we talking about specific comments geared towards certain parts of a piece, or random sarcastic comments about your writing in general? It would make a difference.
 
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I thought the issue was sarcasm versus sincerity. Personally, I feel sincerity, negative or positive, is always to be appreciated.
Hear hear! I'm totally willing to take harsh critisism (sp?) of my work. But when people mock it in anyway, it's really hard to take.
 
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