I don't wish for Christians to disappear. I don't hate you. You don't bother me. As long as religious types don't attempt to mandate behavior based on their beliefs (such as prohibiting gay marriage), I'm happy to let you be.
I happen to agree with you 100%.
But there are a couple of problems with what you've stated above.
It's about the mandating of behavior.
You took the example of SSM.
I'd say the if two of the SS are living together, no one really cares. This has been happening from the dawn of time. I know for sure it was going on 2,000 years ago...ever been to Pompeii? Yeah,,, it was going on before Vesuvio blew up and buried it.
It's nothing new.
But SSM is. Marriage is not meant to be between two of the SS. And this is not a belief that only Christians or religious persons hold to. This is a Natural Law. I'm sure you're a nice person and I'm sure you believe in the Natural Law. Most civilized populations do. This is the belief that humans hold that allows us to grow better as time goes on...without these laws, chaos would ensure.
Some would be: murder, adultery, infanticide, stealing, etc. A society could not make progress without the Natural Law.
I don't think Christians believe in the Natural Law any more than an atheist does. I just think they believe in a spiritual being that created everything, including us. This is a personal belief.
You like history? Did Christianity have any affect on the uncivilized populations of the time before Christianity? Check it out. It's one of the main reasons we're better off today than 2,000 years ago.
My answer to the question as to whether humans would be better off without religion, is yes. The reason is that religions tend to teach unquestioning obedience. "God says go kill the Canaanites (so Josh says), so I guess Imma kill me some Canaanites." That's not to say that other ideologies don't do the same. Anyone pushing and ideology, whether Jim Jones, Stalin, Olsteen, or Ayn Rand, can and should be questioned.
Oh. An anti-authoritarian!
You got any kids?
That'll change your mind real quick.
Some obedience does have to be unquestioning.
The armed forces....soldiers.
And other examples.....If a plane is crashing you would tend to unquestionably obey the directions of the cabin officers.
We're kind of like a human race that is crashing...and God would like to show us how to live a better life so we could be better off.
I agree with you about Osteen, Jones, and those others you mentioned. Stalin killed about 20 million persons....Christianity can't even match that...counting the crusades.
Ayan Rand included.
Can we include William Golding?
Could we include Aldous Huxley?
George Orwell?
Do you think we'd fare better WITH Christianity or without it?
It seems to me men mess up really well.
Without God we'd be in a mess like the ones above within two generations if we removed God from our culture.
I'm saying that a world without religion might might be better. It'd be better still if all were trained to examine the proposition put to them as well as the ones they were raised with.
I've examined the propositions. I'll be most on these threads have. I don't know any true Christian that has not studied and examined Christianity before accepting it. I left the church I was raised with.
As to the O.T......
I'd save my breath speaking about it if I were you....
there are fundamental Christians that believe God WROTE the O.T. You know, sat down at His computer and printed that out. This is not how it is. I won't get into it because I don't know how interested you are...but not all theologians believe that God commanded men, woman and children to be slaughtered. And some other pretty nasty stuff.