Here in the South I was shocked to meet people who were entitled to benefits and refused to get them.
Often veterans. I knew a Viet vet who served several tours and got diabetes in his early 30's. He said, "I might have gotten it anyway. Then he had a quintuple bypass.
Abd in his 60's he was working in a grocery part time.
My husband also got Agent Orange illnesses in his 40's. We applied ten years later to get health care during a corporate takeover. In the process he got cash benefits, which we didn't seek, but we believed he had earned those benefits and he desperately needed the medical care.
We work within a system. We never begrudge our federal income taxes, sometimes more than $25K a year, and we are not going to refuse anything either.
It is embarrassing to know he had one short enlistment and received the GI bill, medical benefits, and cash benefits for 19 years, currently at 100%. But it is not wrong to pay taxes willingly and receive benefits fairly.
Some people have six children attending public school--others are childless. I supported school budgets when my three children were in school and when they graduated.
Healthcare is not a handout but there are subsidies for those who need them. So what?
Stay healthy. Get insured. If you don't need a subsidy thank God.