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ppl should not contest me. i try to remain humble but some times that's hard. i can take whatever u throw at me and come back at u ten fold. trust me, u will feel it b4 i choose to walk away and after i choose to walk away. i don't like to go there. but hey...
 
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ppl should not contest me. i try to remain humble but some times that's hard. i can take whatever u throw at me and come back at u in ten different ways. trust me, u will feel it when i walk away. i don't like to go there. but hey...

How does that make you any better than the person who offended you, then? Saying something like "ppl should not contest me" because whatever garbage someone gives you will "come back at u in ten different ways" just makes you seem like a cyber-bully.

And this is coming from someone who has had four infractions under CF's old penal system for holding to the same philosophy you describe.
 
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happycat these posts weren't purely about Snowbunny. and it had NOTHING to do with her as "a person". so plz drop that argument now plz. these posts were about an injustice. plain and simple. don't take it the wrong way. don't make it about what it's not. ty.


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What was your point? It looks to me like one long rant about another member.

I'll be the first to admit that I do not agree with Snowbunny's theological views at all. However, one CAN separate theology from friendship, and she and I have done so. She's a kind-hearted and wonderful person whom I happen to disagree with (sometimes vehemently) on a theological level. I really wish you'd try to separate her beliefs from her personality here.

I also think it's kind of rude to copy and post private messages in threads without the other party's permission.
 
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happycat these posts weren't purely about Snowbunny. so plz drop that argument now plz. these posts were about an injustice. plain and simple. don't take it the wrong way. don't make it about what it's not. ty.

I've been asking you what they're about. To me that's what it looks like. Care to explain it, because I'm sure that other people who read this are going to see it the same way?
 
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I've been asking you what they're about. To me that's what it looks like. Care to explain it, because I'm sure that other people who read this are going to see it the same way?
oooohhh.... so ur commenting without knowing ALL of the facts first (even though i presented them all to u). i see. that's wise! now all of ur inaccurate insinuations make complete absolute perfect sense to me so i won't waste my time responding to any of them. ok. here u go. start in this thread: http://www.christianforums.com/t5671744-wwooowwwww-all-i-can-say-is-wwwoooowww.html(at post #37)......once u find out how that thread got shut down then return here (start at post #156) and read down. by the time u arrive back here u will be all caught up to speed sista. peace.
 
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What was your point? It looks to me like one long rant about another member. I'll be the first to admit that I do not agree with..... I really wish you'd try to separate her beliefs from her personality here.

....If someone is harassing you, it's better PM the moderators and report the person instead of harrassing him or her back....

How does that make you any better than the person who offended you, then?.... And this is coming from someone who has had four infractions under CF's old penal system for holding to the same philosophy you describe.

I've been asking you what they're about. To me that's what it looks like. Care to explain it, because I'm sure that other people who read this are going to see it the same way?

happycat these posts weren't purely about Snowbunny. and it had NOTHING to do with her as "a person". so plz drop that argument now plz. these posts were about an injustice. plain and simple. don't take it the wrong way. don't make it about what it's not. ty.
Just for the record Post#172, Happycat:

Originally Posted by universalmessenger
ok i see u r an administer...... there is a young lady by the name of Snowbunny who comes into my threads and starts flaming me and others in order to get my threads shut down. like she did here http://www.christianforums.com/t5671...wwoooowww.html
....i don't know if there will b a different outcome from seeking out ur help. but i would like some justice to b served plz. ty.... she said she purposely did that in order to get it shut down. but i had done nothing, intentionally, to provoke her. this is a non-Christan religion forum. so my topic fit the discussion. i guess she had a personal problem with that. however, i did not take it personally and i successfully kept the situation from escalating. so i don't see y u felt the need to shut down my thread. i was trying to figure this out. is there anybody i could appeal to?

it's about an "injustice" as i said earlier. pure and simple. don't take it the wrong way. don't make it out to be about something that it's not. ty.
 
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u must admit now people. i give everyone a fair warning. don't i? i say do not contest me. and i am humble and sincere with it. but they do it anyway. then they mad at me when they walk away looking foolish. how am i to blame???

Oh please. You're pushing people around, plain and simple. People do not agree with you so you start lobbing the insults. We have a right to contest you just as much as you have a right to contest the rest of us.

As for the "walking away looking foolish" part, it was very late in my little corner of the planet. I will also say that you can be hard to follow by always talking like you are text messaging.

am i like a big red button with a 'DO NOT PUSH' sign or something??? lol. u just gots to see what it does?!?!

:yawn:
 
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As for the "walking away looking foolish" part, it was very late in my little corner of the planet.... Now, if you'll excuse me, I have to go to work.

i didn't want to give the impression that i was making an implication. so it was "late" for a reason. be safe at work sista. peace.
 
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i just checked out the other thread. i see they have removed most of the posts with negative comments in an attempt to alleviate the situation. so i'm happy again. yea! even though this situation was foul at least i got my self-respect and dignity back. that's all i ever wanted. i am very grateful and appreciative. God bless. peace.
 
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Now happycat does that answer all ur questions??? i didn't see this earlier so i missed it by mistake even though the main issue has been resolved i just wanted to speak on this real quick:

.....Oh please. You're pushing people around, plain and simple. People do not agree with you so you start lobbing the insults. We have a right to contest you just as much as you have a right to contest the rest of us......

no. contest and a normal discussion, a regular Q&A, (which this is what i prefer) r two different things, entirely.

contest means:

to challenge Questioning a statement and demanding an explanation from another person.

attempting to force one to defend themselves.

projecting hostility and making false accusations when questioning another person in order to incite a similar response.

baiting basically.

sorta like what u did in the above post, on post 184, and then some. sadly, the best u could do was mention text messaging. lol.

anyway, a regular Q&A is just two people talking. this is how i conduct myself. see the difference???

so u can contest me if u want to but at least u've been forewarned. lol. some people weren't so lucky.
 
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Do what thou wilt be the whole of the law.

To get this thread back on topic...

Religious intolerance is a problem, yes. But is there really anything that can be done about it? Some people are required by their religion to be "intolerant" of other faiths, and to deny them that right is to be intolerant of their belief structure. Furthermore, I'd rather someone be honest about their distaste for other religions than put forth a false olive branch, all the while considering others blasphemers, idoloters, and/or infidels.

The best that can really be hoped for is for the rhetoric of intolerance to be scaled back, and people to be civil towards one another.

Love is the law, love under will.
 
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Do what thou wilt be the whole of the law.

To get this thread back on topic...

Religious intolerance is a problem, yes. But is there really anything that can be done about it? Some people are required by their religion to be "intolerant" of other faiths, and to deny them that right is to be intolerant of their belief structure. Furthermore, I'd rather someone be honest about their distaste for other religions than put forth a false olive branch, all the while considering others blasphemers, idoloters, and/or infidels.

The best that can really be hoped for is for the rhetoric of intolerance to be scaled back, and people to be civil towards one another.

Love is the law, love under will.

listen see it however u want...... denial is ok.

BUT LET'S BE CLEAR ON THIS: I, PERSONALLY, DO NOT TOLERATE DISRESPECT, PUBLIC SLANDER, OR FLAMING FROM NO ONE. PERIOD.

my ONLY reason???.... bc i do not treat others this way so i except the exact same courtesy in return.

How is that asking for too much???

THAT IS how a forum should b conducted in the first place. but it's not... bc ppl play favorites around here. like i said don't take it the wrong way. don't make it out to be about something that it's not. it was about public slander, flaming, and Snowbunny abusing her seniority status in order to get the mods to lock down two of my threads. even though she was the ONE clearly at fault here. an injustice. so flip the script, distort the details if need b, whatever. u can paint that picture inside ur head however u'd like. it does not matter to me at all. but no matter how many ways u try to "dress it up" this will always remain the reality of the situation. end of story. ty.
 
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People should not flame or provoke others.


I'm pretty sure that most of us agree with the Golden Rule.
yeah. i like that. lol. that was tighter then anything i've said so far. lol.... the Golden Rule. i agree.... but all i can say is, again, i alert people to the fact that this is the best way to conduct business with each other. especially when it comes to me. give me this and i will show u the exact same amount of courtesy and respect in return. bottom line. ty.
 
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People should not flame or provoke others.


I'm pretty sure that most of us agree with the Golden Rule.

Yeah, definitely. Though, if people truly treated others as though they were themselves, we wouldn't have any of these problems.
 
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