Relationship trouble

[joshiemcmullan]

I love this girl ALOT. She broke up with me because I cheated. but she took me back. She said she is only inlove with the promises I made. I am praying that this will work out. I went into a depression and cut myself. She is my everything.. I hope she truly loves me. we have liked each other since 2006. I dont want to loose her. God bless!

 

[Wedjat]

Then you need to make every effort to show that you will truly remain faithful to her.
Go above and beyond for her, or eventually she'll just keep bringing up the time you cheated on her in her mind and leave you.
Honestly, you're very lucky she even took you back, and you need to seriously show the effort to keep it that way.

 

[wannabeswat]

How long ago was your depression?

I was depressed awhile ago, it was really hard. You need to do you best to get a hold of it and don't let it take control of you, but learn as much as you can from it- even take a journal or something, it'll help, even though it sounds like a stupid idea.

But you thinking shes your all and things like that are very dangerous, you need to have self confindance and self esteem. As you will know, you can't rely on most people to give you your worth, you will end up very hurt (both of you) and will push you far far back deeper into depression. To protect your self, and to have a good relationship with your girlfiend, you need to bellieve in your self a wee bit more- do it for your girlfriend, if not for yourself.
Hope this helps

 

[youronetruelove]

I have to agree with Wedjat. You should show her how much you have cared and changed. Follow through with the promises that she loves. And possibly tell her about your depression. She deserves your trust and she could probably help you get some professional help so that you stay happy and healthy.
You are in my prayers.

 

[joshiemcmullan]

Thanks. We worked it out today. She still wants me. And I am lucky. We must be doing something right. If she took me back

 

[joshiemcmullan]

The depression was three days long an it started the day we broke up

 

[wannabeswat]

The depression was three days long an it started the day we broke up

Ok.

All the best with your relationship brother

 

[joshiemcmullan]

We got back. I want to spend the rest of my life with her

 

[purplepride]

I think that its great that she took you back. Just treat her with the utmost respect that she deserves.

 

[JesusFreak4L]

Just reiterating what everyone else has been saying, just show her you care, keep sticking to the promises that you have given to her, and be blessed with keeping the Lord the center of your relationship!

 

[itisdeliciouscake]

you have a much bigger problem then this girl. if she is yo ur everything, you have nothing.

and by getting her back it can only make you're situation worse, because you may be fooled into thinking you have something.

 

[PhilosophicalBluster]

She is your everything... So you cheated on her?

 

[HarborOrange]

you have a much bigger problem then this girl. if she is yo ur everything, you have nothing.

and by getting her back it can only make you're situation worse, because you may be fooled into thinking you have something.

You've got a good point.

If she breaks up with you, then what do you have then? You have to understand that not all relationships will last. I made that mistake awhile back, it was terrible.
I'm not saying it's definite she will break up with you, you've just gotta know that it's not set in stone that you guys will stay together.
Anyways, good luck and God bless, hope everything goes well.

 

[Tallerthanatree]

She is your everything... So you cheated on her?

Busted.