Hi everyone. I just started dating this girl a few weeks ago and we are both christian and we both like one another alot.Well the question I have is that she told me yesterday that a few years ago she was rebellious and lost her virginity and since then has regreted it and God has since forgiven her.Is it o.k. for me still being a Virgin to continue to go out with her? She wanted to make sure with me that it was fine and I dont have a problem but I wanna make sure that its o.k. cause I know if God forgave her and it happened a while ago then it in her past and she`s a changed person now.
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Ave Maria
Ave Maria Gratia Plena
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Of course its okay! There is nothing wrong with dating a non-virgin! If there was, I wouldn't have found David. And thank God that I did find him as I know that he is my soulmate that I have been searching for for years.
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Oh im fine with it.It doesnt bother me but I just need to know if it was taboo or not which I guess is not.I told her I was going to help her and we would take it slow cause I think we can make it work.
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Oh and yes, if it get that serious to where we are talking about marriage,I want to keep my virginity for her if she is to be the one.
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Fenak
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Then, my friend, you're really a grown up man! lol
Dude.. don't care about what people would think of anything! Later, if you regret that you didn't do something in your life because of other ppl, you'll realize that you can't actually blame them for that. It's your fault, your loss..
There's one voice only we should listen, and that's our Loving Father voice, through His Holy Spirit!
Amen, bro? Go ahead, living for Lord's name, and listening to His voice. Be sure that He will be blessing this relationship! =]
*sorry if my english is not perfect. it's not my first language.. ;]
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Fenak
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Here's a passage for you:
II Corinthians 5:17
Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
Past is gone, brother. Bury it, and move forward on the path Lord guides you! =] If she's the one prepared by God for you, it's perfect! ALL THINGS ARE BECOME NEW! =]
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It's good that she was honest and up front with you.
So long as you can forgive her for it, then there are no problems
If you seeing it causing problems down the track, then perhaps seek some Godly counsel from your Pastor etc.
So long as you can forgive her for it, then there are no problems
If you seeing it causing problems down the track, then perhaps seek some Godly counsel from your Pastor etc.
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