- Mar 2, 2018
- 45
- 42
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- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Celibate
I have a really bad relationship problem: I really like this guy, but my best friend likes the same guy, and I haven't told her this yet. I don't want to lose my friendship with her, but I can't stand to keep it a secret from her any longer. We're best friends and we tell each other everything, so it feels horrible to keep such a big secret from her when she deserves to know.
When she told me that she liked him, I felt crushed, but I didn't say anything. I really wish I did. I've never met anyone who understands me like he does. He's a very godly man who puts his spiritual life first, and I know that if we were together, he would spur me on to become a better Christian.
Whenever I think about the possibility of the two of them getting together, it makes me want to cry. Every time I'm around either of them, I feel anxious and panicky. I feel like such a horrible friend!
I hate having to keep this a secret, but I'm scared that if I tell my friend I like the same guy as her, she'll stop wanting to be friends with me. I keep hoping that my feelings for him will just go away, but they keep getting stronger.
I don't want to keep bottling up my feelings, but I also don't want to lose a good friendship over a guy. What should I do?
When she told me that she liked him, I felt crushed, but I didn't say anything. I really wish I did. I've never met anyone who understands me like he does. He's a very godly man who puts his spiritual life first, and I know that if we were together, he would spur me on to become a better Christian.
Whenever I think about the possibility of the two of them getting together, it makes me want to cry. Every time I'm around either of them, I feel anxious and panicky. I feel like such a horrible friend!
I hate having to keep this a secret, but I'm scared that if I tell my friend I like the same guy as her, she'll stop wanting to be friends with me. I keep hoping that my feelings for him will just go away, but they keep getting stronger.
I don't want to keep bottling up my feelings, but I also don't want to lose a good friendship over a guy. What should I do?