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ZiSunka

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Or I can pick up my toys and storm off in a huff, too?

I'm not picking up my toys and leaving. I am attempting to make jehane happy, since just about everything I post in any forum seems to upset her so much.

If even my existence is upsetting to her, the only way to live at peace with her is to cease to exist. The way to cease to exist is to leave the forum once again, not to be childish, not to be huffy, but to defer to the wishes of my sibling in Christ. St Paul talked about this when he said, "Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another." I am yielding and honoring Jehane's dislike of me and giving her the forum because it's what she seems to want.

You may call me childish, but I am trying to live out my faith the best I can under these circumstances. I find it offensive that anyone, even me, would keep posting what others find offensive and everything I post seems to be offensive to everyone. I have to have integrity. If I am doing what I know is offensive, I have to stop doing what is offensive. My posts are offensive so I have to stop posting. If that's childish in your eyes, so be it. I don't care much for name calling anyway.
 
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ZiSunka

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"A wise son accepts his father's discipline, but a scoffer does not listen to rebuke."
Proverbs 13:1
"All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness."
Hebrews 12:11
"Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; the rod of discipline will remove it far from him."
Proverbs 22:15
"Apply your heart to discipline and your ears to words of knowledge."
Proverbs 23:12

I am more than willing to be taught. I just don't know what you want from me.

You want me to quit offending Jehane, but everything I post in every forum offends her, even if it isn't addressed to her and no one else finds it offensive, so the only solution I can find is to stop posting.

If there is another way, outside of letting her preview and edit every post I make so she can remove the offending words, let me know. A problem can't be solved without a solution.
 
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ZiSunka

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Look, I'm a horrible jerk and I'm really sorry.

I honestly think the only way I'm going to be able to keep from being an unbearable jerk is to keep silent.

I've thought and prayed about another solution, but I just don't know how else to solve the problem. I can't fight irrational hatred.

All was peace and grace here until I came back. I hope with all my heart that you all can regain that not that the irritant will be gone.
 
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Until We Are One

How will we ever be able to be one in the Kingdom of Heaven if we can not manage to be one here on Earth?
How much longer will we allow the devil separate us? How much longer will we allow the devil to conquer over everlasting love?

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~InHisHands~

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Look, I'm a horrible jerk and I'm really sorry.

I honestly think the only way I'm going to be able to keep from being an unbearable jerk is to keep silent.

I've thought and prayed about another solution, but I just don't know how else to solve the problem. I can't fight irrational hatred.

All was peace and grace here until I came back. I hope with all my heart that you all can regain that not that the irritant will be gone.
I don't hate you WalkIn. Is that not enough? I want all of you to see yourselves in my eyes. I want all of you to see what I see and what I love and why I'm here. But, it must start somewhere. Someone must be willing to step forward and love with all that is in them. Don't tell me, talk to Jehane and talk to Dan. If you all have any care for one another at all, then let it be known. You don't have to choose to not get along forever. The walls can not come down unless you're all willing to open the gate and walk through it. God loves all of us and he's not willing to let a single one go and we shouldn't either. Thank you for taking the time and the energy to speak so openly here. I pray that the others will do the same. You are all my family now whether you like it or not. ;)
 
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Danfrey

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Hey, how did I get dragged into this? I have never avoided the forums because of anyone. My schedule has been full with work and trying to figure out what to do about my sons education. I think that Walkin and I are very clear on the fact that we don't agree on alot of subjects. This has nothing to do with why I haven't been posting. I choose not to argue theology with Walkin as have very different views, but I hold no grudge.
 
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~InHisHands~

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WalkIn I didn't say you were the villain. But just forget it. You guys don't want to work it out. I apologize for caring. I won't make that mistake again. Especially since you don't know me. What do you care anyway? I'm just another stranger to you. Forgive me for disrupting the silence and discord in this forum.
 
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~InHisHands~

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Well anyway, it's Sunday. It's the Lord's day. It's a new day. :D

The man of God came up and told the king of Israel, This is what the Lord says: Because the Arameans think the Lord is a god of the hills and not a god of the valleys, I will deliver this vast army into your hands, and you will know that I am the Lord. 1 Kings 20:28
Whenever we stand on the mountain, we are able to see clearly. It is the best vantage point to see what lies ahead. Wouldn't it be great to live on the mountain all the time in order to anticipate what is ahead? God allows us to experience the mountaintop at times. Joseph's first mountaintop experience was as a young man. He had the favor of his father, Jacob. He was given a fine coat and even had a dream about his future. As a young man, Joseph had a sense of destiny about his life. God often gives us a picture of our future so that we will remember this picture when we are being tested to trust Him in the valley. This picture usually does not reveal how God intends to bring about the visions for our life.
However, none of us really derive the character qualities God desires for our lives while we are on the mountain. It is in the valley where the fruit is planted and harvested. It cannot grow on the mountain; it must grow in the valley. God is a God of the mountain, but he is even more a God of the valley. In the valley, it is more difficult to see ahead; the clouds often cover the valley and limit our sight. Joseph was thrust into a deep valley that left him wondering if the God of his father had forsaken him. Jesus hoped that He might be able to avoid the valley that caused Him to sweat blood. There is a valley that each of us must enter, usually unwillingly, in order to experience the God of the valley-and to experience His faithfulness in the valley. Once we have spent time in this valley, we come out with something we would have never gained if we had not entered it. The valley brings much fruit into our lives so that we might plant seeds into the lives of others. God does not waste valley experiences. If we are faithful in the valley, we will enter a new dimension with God that we never thought possible. There is a harvest of wisdom and virtue that can only be grown in the valley.
Has God brought you into the valley? Know that the valley is a place of fruitfulness; it is a place of testing. It is where God brings what you know in your head into your heart. The only value of knowledge is when it becomes part of your heart. Look for God in the valley today.
I adore the valley! I spend so much time there. *Grin* But, it's very valuable time. Time that has taught me a lot of things. Time that has allowed me to see a lot of things. Hopefully it is time that will help me to be able to use it for his purpose to help show others and plant seeds. However, with the water rates going up, he'll have to do the watering. ;)
 
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~InHisHands~

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I guess I'll go too. There won't be anyone here to post to so why bother right? Just one more place where I'm not welcome. I'm down to one. If that goes, I will likely leave altogether. It's just not worth it. I can get all this drama and hatred and anger offline. I don't need to get it from some internet site.
 
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Danfrey

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Red,

I think you have mistaken my silence lately for anger or hurt feelings. It is neither. I finished my seven day break and went back to work Friday. When I am on my 12 hour shifts, I don't have much time to study and post. Also, things have been a little up in the air with Shane's education lately and I have been trying to find a solution. All of that to say that I am still online, just pretty silent during workdays. Hopefully I will have time to study on my days off this week and will have something to post.
 
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