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If you already have all the answers... I wonder why you'd ask for advice. *shrug*
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CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
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I asked for advice on what to do next, and how to improve. That I obviously do not have the answer, hence the post asking "what should I do." My question was not "what did I do wrong." I do have the answer for that, clearly, hence the entire paragraph about it. If you haven't read the thread, I wonder why you'd post a comment. *shrugs*
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I second the advice not to be alone together. Also, if possible, find a Christian woman you can be accountable to. Tell her exactly what you put in your first post, and ask her to pray for you and hold you accountable to doing the right thing from here on in. Then meet with her every fortnight (or whatever) and be honest with her about how you're doing. Sin thrives in darkness; bring it into the light and it loses part of its grip on you.
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