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Hi, my name is patrisha. I am 15 years old. I was recently raped and as a result i think i have conceived a child. I am very scared to tell anyone about it and i don't have anyone that i could trust enough to share my misfortune with. I want to get an abortion but am unsure of the procedure and the consequences this may have on me physically. If you could give me some information on this it would be much appreciated.
Thats the email!
I wrote her back and here is my email but please pray for her. When I hear these stories it makes me cry and brings back memories.
Hey hun, I'm sorry to hear about this. I was also raped at the age of 14, luckly for me I did not get pregnant, but please think about this, did that baby asked to be here just as you didn't ask to be raped. I understand that you don't want the memory of the raper, there is always adobtion. My Advice would be to try your hardest to find someone you can confide in. Maybe go to a church where you might not know the preacher, preast which ever. Most preachers are willing to talk to you about this, and want let it leave, you also need to maybe contact the police, and you need to go to the Hospital to get checked so that they have proof of your rape. Take it from someone who was there also, I was scared out of my mind. Maybe it might help if you hear my story and how I over came it.
I was 14 and I decided to walk home from school one day because I missed my bus, (stupid stupid mistake) and as I started walking home, the school was 5 miles away from my house on feet. I was three miles from the school and I seen a car pull over and this guy asked me if I would like a ride, I was always told not to go with strangers or talk to them, I kept on walking like I didn't hear him. He started to holler at me "what are you deaf, I'm bleepin talkin to you *, have some respect." I started to get scared and there was knowone around but him and I, he pulled his car over and I took off running, he started to chase me on feet, he caught me and I was kicking and screaming "leave me alone." he drug me to his car and threw me in his car and sat in the back seat with me at first and shoved two pills down my throat he literly pride my mouth opened and made me swollow these pills. after that I don't remember much but wakeing up in the middel of the woods with just my bra and panties on my clothes were ripped but lieing next to me. I remeber trying to find my way out of the woods and getting home, when I got home I didn't know what day it was and really didn't care I walked up to my house and noticed that there was cops at my house, I remember opening the door and my mom screamed "where the heck have you been." she looked at me and was like "hunny what happend to you." I didn't want to talk I just wanted to go upstairs to my room and just cry. I remember getting to the top of the stairs and in the bathroom I looked in the mirrior and I had blood on my face and as soon as I went to take my clothes off there was blood in my panties. He had destroyed me I thought. I didn't think I would ever beable to tell anyone about it. The first person I told was my counsalour at school, and I didn't tell her until it was about a month later and now that I think about it I wish I would have talked sooner.
I hope my story has helped some and I hope you really think about talking to someone, if not your mom then a friend or a counsalour.
That is my story and what happen to me and what I sent her. I'm over mine and my husband doesn't know about it cus I don't want it in my life anymore and right now I'm crying because I feel so bad for this young girl. Just ask if you all would pray for her!
Thats the email!
I wrote her back and here is my email but please pray for her. When I hear these stories it makes me cry and brings back memories.
Hey hun, I'm sorry to hear about this. I was also raped at the age of 14, luckly for me I did not get pregnant, but please think about this, did that baby asked to be here just as you didn't ask to be raped. I understand that you don't want the memory of the raper, there is always adobtion. My Advice would be to try your hardest to find someone you can confide in. Maybe go to a church where you might not know the preacher, preast which ever. Most preachers are willing to talk to you about this, and want let it leave, you also need to maybe contact the police, and you need to go to the Hospital to get checked so that they have proof of your rape. Take it from someone who was there also, I was scared out of my mind. Maybe it might help if you hear my story and how I over came it.
I was 14 and I decided to walk home from school one day because I missed my bus, (stupid stupid mistake) and as I started walking home, the school was 5 miles away from my house on feet. I was three miles from the school and I seen a car pull over and this guy asked me if I would like a ride, I was always told not to go with strangers or talk to them, I kept on walking like I didn't hear him. He started to holler at me "what are you deaf, I'm bleepin talkin to you *, have some respect." I started to get scared and there was knowone around but him and I, he pulled his car over and I took off running, he started to chase me on feet, he caught me and I was kicking and screaming "leave me alone." he drug me to his car and threw me in his car and sat in the back seat with me at first and shoved two pills down my throat he literly pride my mouth opened and made me swollow these pills. after that I don't remember much but wakeing up in the middel of the woods with just my bra and panties on my clothes were ripped but lieing next to me. I remeber trying to find my way out of the woods and getting home, when I got home I didn't know what day it was and really didn't care I walked up to my house and noticed that there was cops at my house, I remember opening the door and my mom screamed "where the heck have you been." she looked at me and was like "hunny what happend to you." I didn't want to talk I just wanted to go upstairs to my room and just cry. I remember getting to the top of the stairs and in the bathroom I looked in the mirrior and I had blood on my face and as soon as I went to take my clothes off there was blood in my panties. He had destroyed me I thought. I didn't think I would ever beable to tell anyone about it. The first person I told was my counsalour at school, and I didn't tell her until it was about a month later and now that I think about it I wish I would have talked sooner.
I hope my story has helped some and I hope you really think about talking to someone, if not your mom then a friend or a counsalour.
That is my story and what happen to me and what I sent her. I'm over mine and my husband doesn't know about it cus I don't want it in my life anymore and right now I'm crying because I feel so bad for this young girl. Just ask if you all would pray for her!
how rude, how can someone be so cold hearted to even kid about that 
