I've done my best to express what I mean. Your question shows I continue to do an inadequate job of it. If a better exposition occurs to me I'll post again.
The difficulty, at least as I see it, with what you are getting at is that what you describe is a noble goal; but constitutes an ends rather than a means. We should focus on our common humanity, we should recognize that skin color really is only skin deep. Martin Luther King's dream of a better tomorrow remains a dream; and it remains still firmly somewhere in the tomorrow (or at least we can pray and hope).
But here and now the means of reaching such an end requires a very, very, very frank and open conversation about race. One that is going to make a lot of people (and, in all fairness, I really mean white people, including myself, here) very, very uncomfortable.
That is the discomfort society must experience if we ever want to start having a healing process, a process that might see King's dream one day become a reality.
Growing pains aren't pleasant, but they are necessary. And continuing with that metaphor, there's a lot of people who are more interested in throwing an adolescent tantrum rather than grow up and face that discomfort with maturity and honesty.
So, as I see it, I--a white person--
should be uncomfortable. It's not pleasant to realize that you've been living your life born with a certain kind of privilege that others were never afforded. I often see people talk about "white guilt", but virtually no one is saying that white people should feel guilty for having pink skin. Guilt isn't the point, becoming more self-aware, and also more
other-aware is the point.
We shouldn't be thinking in "us" and "them" terms when it comes to a lot of things, skin color included. Race is a fundamentally imaginary construct, a cultural invention that emerged chiefly in the context of white Europeans making contact with diverse cultures, and seeking to justify European conquest and subjugation of those people. Over the course of nearly 500 years a lot of deep, deep pain has been caused. And we've only really started to have anything resembling a conversation about that in the past six decades. Though in some respects it almost feels like we haven't actually been having a conversation about it until like a couple years ago.
I think the very fact that CRT and BLM are demonized perfectly encapsulates just how incredibly
little has actually been accomplished since the Civil Rights Movement. The fact that saying that black lives also matter infuriates so many people is a significant diagnostic of a very deep problem.
-CryptoLutheran