I asked my question, not wanting to debate, but rather to try to understand. So please take this in the spirit intended. It seems to me that someone growing up is not a reasonable analogy to evolution. The person neither gains nor loses DNA in the growing process; there is no reproduction involved;...
(There is reproduction involved, although it is the asexual reproduction of cells.)
... and not only does the person remain a "person" they actually remain *the same* person.
(They eat food they metabolize they excrete, it is a convenient fiction that they are the "same person".)
Hopefully there's a better explanation (that I can still understand). Thanks.
A person starts as a single cell, a fertilized egg. That egg divides and eventually differentiates into germ layers, ectoderm, endoderm and mesoderm, and then the cells differentiate further into tissues and organs. This differentiation occurs because genes are turned on and off by the chemical environment of the cells. Even that first cell had a chemical gradient so that the cells that developed from it differed chemically and so developed into different types of cells. It's true that all of those cells have the same DNA but because of different chemical environments they develop differently. The adult human is not really the "same person" as the fertilized egg, anymore than the sap of a rubber tree is a tire.
In multicellular organisms sexual reproduction gives rise to greater genetic variability. The total physical environment provides feedback, and various feedback systems drive the organisms to specialize and become different.
(See for instance, "The Beak of the Finch".)
Now I could, and others could, try to explain in metaphors how it works but you would dismiss the metaphor because it is a metaphor. So, if you want to understand how evolution works you'll actually have to inform yourself about genetics, molecular biology, developmental biology, and ecology.
If it could be taught in a few hundred words, there would be no reason for years of college courses to become proficient.
As it is, you can learn more about biology in a few hours than was known by the wisest men for thousands of years.
I would refer you to a book like Ernst Mayer's "What Evolution Is".
