God always has been; nothing has ever been before Him. And now nothing and no one is greater or better than God and His love >
"Because Your lovingkindness is better than life,
.My lips shall praise You." (Psalm 63:3)
If he was the only thingat the time what is his purpose for our purpose?
Remember that God is the Father and His Son Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Before creation, I understand, our Heavenly Father and His Son were in such wonderful love and sharing with one another. Our Father is so pleased with His Son Jesus, that He has predestined that He will have many children who are like Jesus, pleasing to Him like His own Son Jesus is because they are "conformed to the image of His Son" >
"For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren." (Romans 8:29)
Is there a certain religion or type of christianity I should connect myself with?
I understand the Biblical Christianity includes how "we" "first trusted in Christ" (Ephesians 1:12) > we have trusted Jesus to get us forgiven and to get us reconciled with God; plus we have given ourselves to Him so we are more and more submitting to God and how He has us be and live > Philippians 2:13; we are all "called in one body" to obey how our Heavenly Father rules us in His own peace > Colossians 3:15. And we discover how He corrects us (Hebrews 12:4-11) to submit to Him, be pleasing to Him, and learn how to relate with one another Christians as family. So, you need to discover people who are into this and help you with this. Trust God to connect you with people He knows you belong with; God knows their hearts and yours

So, He knows who you belong with.
How frequenetly should I go to church?
Any time you are sharing with ones who love you and are good examples to help you get real with God and loving . . . you are in church

But find a group who helps you; it is good to share as family with individuals but also as church groups. Then see when you meet, the schedule for those who are good for you. Also, you can visit with other people who help you, who are not in your church.
What exactly is "God"? Was he a person or?
"God is love" (in 1 John 4:8&16), and our Heavenly Father and Jesus and the Holy Spirit are Persons of this one really right and good love. God in us is the love which corrects us to become all-loving (Matthew 5:46); this love makes us gentle and quiet in our spirit > 1 Peter 3:4; and Jesus in this love gives us "rest for your souls" (Matthew 11:28-30); and in God's love in us we have God personally guiding us according to all He knows, in His peace > Colossians 3:15.
So, do not trust any thinking and decisions and ways of seeing things, if these come in worry or hurry or unforgiveness or bitterness or nasty anger or hurts. But be ruled in His peace

with compassion and readiness to forgive. And with God creative you can take advantage of any situation . . . no matter how bad, plus you can make better use of even nice times, than what humans try to make with them. So, it is not about your own ability to create! But we share with God in His creativity in His love.
How was the Bible formed?
Ones understand that first God personally inspired people to write His word for the Bible. And then ones have prayed and trusted God to direct them about which books belong in the Bible and how to translate them. And you can now trust God to personally direct you; there is no status about this > any human can be honest with God and discover how God personally shares with you and guides you in His love. Most of all, I would say, is being corrected (Hebrews 12:4-11) and directed (Isaiah 58:11, 2 Thessalonians 3:5) to be living in God's own love. Only God in you can do this.
How can I create a life for myself that is better and more right?
God is our Creator of our life in Jesus; so we depend purely on Him. But He uses His word to give us His message about how He wants us to love and share with Him and be family with one another in His love which is all-loving and family love. So, be blessed to discover how God creates this with you . . . all He means by His word . . . better than we can think up, but He has us discovering
