if God has to punish people with such a horrible thing as hell, it was cruel of him to create the world in the first place.
You are therefore judging God. The creature judging the creator of heaven and earth, not a good position to be in. Here is a conversation between Job and God when Job had similar complaints:
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1] Then the LORD answered Job out of the whirlwind, and said,
[2] Who is this that darkeneth counsel by words without knowledge?
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3] Gird up now thy loins like a man; for I will demand of thee, and answer thou me.
[4] Where wast thou when I laid the foundations of the earth? declare, if thou hast understanding.
[5] Who hath laid the measures thereof, if thou knowest? or who hath stretched the line upon it?
[6] Whereupon are the foundations thereof fastened? or who laid the corner stone thereof;
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7] When the morning stars sang together, and all the sons of God shouted for joy?
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8] Or who shut up the sea with doors, when it brake forth, as if it had issued out of the womb?
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9] When I made the cloud the garment thereof, and thick darkness a swaddlingband for it,
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10] And brake up for it my decreed place, and set bars and doors,
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11] And said, Hitherto shalt thou come, but no further: and here shall thy proud waves be stayed?
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12] Hast thou commanded the morning since thy days; and caused the dayspring to know his place;
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13] That it might take hold of the ends of the earth, that the wicked might be shaken out of it?
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14] It is turned as clay to the seal; and they stand as a garment.
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15] And from the wicked their light is withholden, and the high arm shall be broken.
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16] Hast thou entered into the springs of the sea? or hast thou walked in the search of the depth?
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17] Have the gates of death been opened unto thee? or hast thou seen the doors of the shadow of death?
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18] Hast thou perceived the breadth of the earth? declare if thou knowest it all.
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19] Where is the way where light dwelleth? and as for darkness, where is the place thereof,
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20] That thou shouldest take it to the bound thereof, and that thou shouldest know the paths to the house thereof?
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21] Knowest thou it, because thou wast then born? or because the number of thy days is great?
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22] Hast thou entered into the treasures of the snow? or hast thou seen the treasures of the hail,
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23] Which I have reserved against the time of trouble, against the day of battle and war?
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24] By what way is the light parted, which scattereth the east wind upon the earth?
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25] Who hath divided a watercourse for the overflowing of waters, or a way for the lightning of thunder;
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26] To cause it to rain on the earth, where no man is; on the wilderness, wherein there is no man;
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27] To satisfy the desolate and waste ground; and to cause the bud of the tender herb to spring forth?
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28] Hath the rain a father? or who hath begotten the drops of dew?
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29] Out of whose womb came the ice? and the hoary frost of heaven, who hath gendered it?
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30] The waters are hid as with a stone, and the face of the deep is frozen.
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31] Canst thou bind the sweet influences of Pleiades, or loose the bands of Orion?
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32] Canst thou bring forth Mazzaroth in his season? or canst thou guide Arcturus with his sons?
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33] Knowest thou the ordinances of heaven? canst thou set the dominion thereof in the earth?
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34] Canst thou lift up thy voice to the clouds, that abundance of waters may cover thee?
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35] Canst thou send lightnings, that they may go, and say unto thee, Here we are?
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36] Who hath put wisdom in the inward parts? or who hath given understanding to the heart?
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37] Who can number the clouds in wisdom? or who can stay the bottles of heaven,
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38] When the dust groweth into hardness, and the clods cleave fast together?
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39] Wilt thou hunt the prey for the lion? or fill the appetite of the young lions,
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40] When they couch in their dens, and abide in the covert to lie in wait?
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41] Who provideth for the raven his food? when his young ones cry unto God, they wander for lack of meat.
Job 40:
[1] Moreover the LORD answered Job, and said,
[2] Shall he that contendeth with the Almighty instruct him? he that reproveth God, let him answer it.
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6] Then answered the LORD unto Job out of the whirlwind, and said,
[7] Gird up thy loins now like a man: I will demand of thee, and declare thou unto me.
[8] Wilt thou also disannul my judgment? wilt thou condemn me, that thou mayest be righteous?
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9] Hast thou an arm like God? or canst thou thunder with a voice like him?
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10] Deck thyself now with majesty and excellency; and array thyself with glory and beauty.
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11] Cast abroad the rage of thy wrath: and behold every one that is proud, and abase him.
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12] Look on every one that is proud, and bring him low; and tread down the wicked in their place.
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13] Hide them in the dust together; and bind their faces in secret.
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14] Then will I also confess unto thee that thine own right hand can save thee.
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15] Behold now behemoth, which I made with thee; he eateth grass as an ox.
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16] Lo now, his strength is in his loins, and his force is in the navel of his belly.
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17] He moveth his tail like a cedar: the sinews of his stones are wrapped together.
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18] His bones are as strong pieces of brass; his bones are like bars of iron.
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19] He is the chief of the ways of God: he that made him can make his sword to approach unto him.
Jobs and mans (our) correct reply:
Job 42:
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1] Then Job answered the LORD, and said,
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2] I know that thou canst do every thing, and that no thought can be withholden from thee.
[3] Who is he that hideth counsel without knowledge? therefore have I uttered that I understood not; things too wonderful for me, which I knew not.
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5] I have heard of thee by the hearing of the ear: but now mine eye seeth thee.
[6] Wherefore I abhor myself, and repent in dust and ashes.
Your issue is not with me or calvinists in general, it is with almighty God.