Question

[Icarus428]

How do you guys feel about a girl and a guy who are dating, but they stay with each other over spring break? Both are Christians of course.

The reason I ask this is because I am about to confront a friend of mine because he did this.

I do not feel that spending the night with your girlfriend is a sin, but I do feel that you are seriously being unwise and lack discernment. I do not want my buddy to screw up his life and mess up. I know that regardless of who you are you cannot overcome your flesh desires if you constantly put yourself in harms way.

But then again that could just be an opinion and conviction of mine that I should keep to myself.

What would you do...

confront or not do a thing.

 

[amie]

If it was my friend, I would talk to him and share my thoughts and emotions, obviously you care enough to get involved...How old is this friend? If he is an adult then it really is his life, but you could still share your concerns with him using openess and honesty...He is lucky to have a friend who cares so much...Best of luck to you, my prayers are with you, with love and blessings...
Amie

 

[Icarus428]

He is actually my accountability partner, so in reality I have to confront him.

He is 19

 

[amie]

yes if he is your accountability partner then you must...I agree
Amie

 

[solo66 man]

I do not know what his resistance level is, but even Billy Graham the world reknown evangelist does not spend time alone with any woman besides his wife. Even on long flights with his secretary, he will not go alone.

 

[amie]

Yes...temptations of the flesh are great...

 

[SenseiPiccolo]

you and your friend will be in my prayers

 

[Mandy]

I agree that you should talk to him about this. I will keep you and your friend in my prayers.

 

[Kristen]

I will also pray!

 

[OldBadfish]

Well if he already did it, then tell him how you feel and pray!

I will say a prayer....

 

[ThienAn]

Are we or are we not the salt of the world?