Hi, I hope you are sincere in your questioning because I find myself answering this question often only to be left behind withiut the other person to respond:
This is what it is okay like as best as someone like me can describe it. Man was not ever created for Heaven in the first place. Our "Kingdom" was to be Earth and we were supposed to rule over the land, the creatures etc (contrary to what Peta preaches the animals are actually ours...not to beat the hell out of but to use naturally) ANYHOO
We were not ever going to Heaven in the first place. He put one thing on Earth for him. It sounds silly to the finite human mind, right? Why would God..infinite and forever need one thing on Earth for himself? I mean he put us here and the animals. He had one thing for Himself here on Earth...the tree of knowledge. Different people have different takes on this story but I'm going with my idea okay?
So he told Adam not to eat it or he will surely die. FAIR and square that was a warning. Adam was created as a fully grown man and God didn't just poof him here, abandoned him like a child in the woods then pop back and start shaking his fingers...No God gave Adam the ability to name all the creatures of the Earth and rule of the Earth to play King on Earth. He also gave him something else, eternal life. The only thing Adam had to do was avoid that one tree...use a little thing called self control. God gave Adam a woman and allowed him to name her. He named her Eve. Eve was told by Adam not to eat the fruit of that specific tree that it was forbidden. The serpent told her that basically God, her loving creator, was a deceiver and did not want her to be like Him so she should eat it.
Well Eve decides to choose the snake's advice over God's advice. That's slap one in the face. God the creator of all things, including the serpent (AKA Satan is disguise) was betrayed by His own Creation.
Do you have any children? Its truly heart breaking for us as finite humans when our children break our rules. God gave everything to man and our ancestors broke his laws and probably his heart too. He owns all of this. EVERYTHING you see is God's.
Well even at that point God didn't allow dead people into Heaven, it just didn't happen. He kinda sent all the people including Abraham (do you know that story), Noah, Moses, etc into hell. They did awesome deeds if you consider all the work Noah did awesome I mean. They did great things for the world and still God sent them to hell. The thing is humans don't have RIGHTS to heaven and that's the problem with universalism. It pretty much states you get a right to heaven if you are by human standards "good enough"
Though the Bible tells us no one is good enough or deserving.
You know what the worst part of it all is? We are in such an indebted state we don't even realize it. We allow our heads to get blown up by our good deeds.
Do you know who fixed the mess that is sin? The One who never deserved to go to Hell to begin with. The One who created it all. The infinite One who is so loving He wants to share His home with undeserving, constantly misbehaving, bad little kids. Does God...all perfect and loving, creator of all things, and morally perfect deserve Hell?
If you can answer that for me I will get back to you. I have a story no matter how you answer

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