Indeed I think you both interpreted it correctly. Scripture tends to have many layers of meaning and I find this is particularly the case with the Pauline epistles. For instance, the different contexts he simultaneously uses the term Body of Christ in, in 1st Corinthians.
On the subject of the OP, my friend
@Paidiske and I were discussing this very problem in another thread, and I think the experiences discussed here are worth contemplating.
It is a particular tragedy
@Neostarwcc that you have suffered from this from the age of ten. In so far as you were exposed to such material, people who put pornography where children can access it are committing child abuse. You can take consolation from the fact that your Lord God and Savior Jesus Christ is infinitely loving, merciful and forgiving and also expresses infinite compassion in the Gospels for children who were the victims of people causing them to stumble.