....but who's counting right??StAnselm said:Let me see, that was 28 hours and 35 minutes...![]()
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....but who's counting right??StAnselm said:Let me see, that was 28 hours and 35 minutes...![]()
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SeRapH&CheRi said:Like Behe's Boy, I am fairly new to the reformed doctrines and in truth, my head feels like it's going to explode with trying to comprehend the ordo salutis. A good friend of mine is a Calvinist who attends Westminster Seminary and does a great job in explaining the reformed doctrine to me. The whole concept of free will vs. predestination is something that I go back and forth with. In fact, I really struggle with the whole concept of election and the fact that God chooses those to come to faith in Him. I grew up with the whole Armenian (sp?) frame of thought, but am now currently attending a PCA church. I guess what I'm trying to say here is that if God loves all, then how is it that He "elects" those to come to Him in faith?
thanks rnmomof7! i appreciated your post and your input as i "wrestle" with predestination and election. a good friend of mine is a calvinist and he has lent me one of the books you suggested - sproul's "chosen by God". i am slowly reading through the book.rnmomof7 said:I have only been a Calvinist a couple of years.
I fought very hard against it for a long time, but one night I was doing my bible reading and it jumped off the pages at me. Suddenly i started to see it clearly in scriptures where i had never seen it .
It is in scripture. We just "choose" not to see it.
The foundational difference is that Arminianism believes that man is good enough that God owes them a "chance"
Calvinism says man is only worthy of judgment . If God is 'fair" then every one of us belong in Hellsfire.
Read John 6 , that is the great predestination and election chapter. It is foundational
Jhn 1:12
But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, [even] to them that believe on his name:
Jhn 1:13
Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
There is a real sense of peace in the doctrine of predestination and election.
We know that indeed it is god that works all things together for the good for those that love Him and are called according to His purpose
He directs the steps of a righteous man , He hold us and keeps us as the author and finisher of our faith.
There is a great peace in allowing God to be God and praising Him for it >
I will suggest 2 books to you that explain it well.
Chosen by God ( sproul)
And
Putting the amazing back into grace (Horton)
RobNJ said:The short & overly simple balace of predestination & free will:
YOU might have agonized long and hard to reach a decision, it might have been a shocker for YOU & those around you....GOD already knew![]()
SeRapH&CheRi said:thanks rnmomof7! i appreciated your post and your input as i "wrestle" with predestination and election. a good friend of mine is a calvinist and he has lent me one of the books you suggested - sproul's "chosen by God". i am slowly reading through the book.anyway, this friend of mine has played an integral part as i've scrutinized predestination. this guy is nothing short of amazing as he can back it all up with scripture!
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rnmomof7 said:You answer, "Because of unbelief."
I ask, Is this unbelief a sin, or is it not? If it be, then Christ suffered the punishment due unto it, or He did not. If He did, why must that hinder them more than their other sins for which He died? If He did not, He did not die for all their sins!"
You answer, "Because of unbelief."
I ask, Is this unbelief a sin, or is it not? If it be, then Christ suffered the punishment due unto it, or He did not. If He did, why must that hinder them more than their other sins for which He died? If He did not, He did not die for all their sins!"
rnmomof7 said:If unbelief is a sin, then Jesus dies for that sin too .
So why would that one sin not be forgiven if all the others have been?
If it is not forgiven , then Jesus did not really dies for all his sins
rnmomof7 said:Don't thank me, thank an old Puritan named Owen I believe :>)
tigersnare said:Haha, I need to read some of those guys. I gotta finish the surface stuff though, almost done with Sproul's Chosen by God.
rnmomof7 said:Are you liking it? he is one of my favorite writers.
rnmomof7 said:If you like him I would suggest " The holiness of God"