Question for DWs on TV

[CuriousInIL]

DWs:

Would it bother you if your DH watched the VS Fashion Show that was on CBS last night?

 

[BigNorsk]

Last night, missed it again.

You know there was a survey just done and what men found sexy wasn't the Frederick's of Hollywood type lingerie but rather more the fun type of wear.

Not really surprising that most men find their wife more attractive in a Tweety Bird shirt and panties than some sort of merry widow or something.

I think Victorias Secret actually tries to play it both ways, kind of almost giving the impression of a Frederick's type but actually going more towards the fun and comfortable side of things.

Not all guys are the same, but if a woman throws on a t-shirt as her "I'm not interested tonight" sleepwear, she's probably actually putting on something that many if not most men find very sexy, and so it doesn't work so to speak.

Sorry for interrupting. I was just reading that study last night and now I can't find it again.

Anyway, most men would find something like this very sexy.

 

[becky81101]

um - yes... that is a big NO-NO for me...

 

[jwwells]

Oh my! I saw DW on TV an read 'Drunk while driving on TV' ... It didn't make any sense!

 

[Oblivious]

He didn't watch it but if he wanted to, I'd be fine with it. <shrugs>

 

[HeatherJay]

We were together at our church Bible Study last night, lol, so no, he didn't watch it...but I wouldn't have cared if he had. I'd have been shocked if he would have stopped on that channel, though, simply because it's not the kind of thing he's interested in...he'd see it as some kind of beauty pageant and get out of there quick, lol, lest I get hooked on the show and steal "the power" (i.e the remote control) from him.

 

[meganr]

I wouldn't mind at all. In fact, we have watched it together, although we didn't watch it this year because we were out.

 

[MyaShane]

Meh. No. I'd be impressed if he'd be able to watch the entire thing. I could see him pause for a minute or two, but he'd get bored after that.
Besides, it's not like I watch some of my favorite Johnny Depp movies for the dialogue!

 

[snoochface]

He wouldn't watch it because it's not his thing, but I wouldn't care if he did.

 

[jelvenko]

DH and I do almost everything together. Usually when one of us is online the other is sitting right there. (Although I'm usually on here when DH is at work. He still knows I come on here.)

we have a very open relationship. If he wanted to watch it, I wouldn't have a problem. Because no matter how attractive those models on TV look, I am happy in the knowledge that he picked me over anyone else. If he didn't love me and the way I look, then he never would've wanted to marry me in the first place. So to me its like this: He can look, Usually we watch TV together, But I know that he picked me, and feel that I don't have anything to really worry about.

 

[becky81101]

this is all really interesting to me that so many women are comfortable with their husbands watching a VS fashion show.

 

[c1ners]

It wouldn't bother me at all. The only thing that would bother me is if he started saying things like "I wish you looked like her" or "I wish you had a body like her".

 

[HeatherJay]

this is all really interesting to me that so many women are comfortable with their husbands watching a VS fashion show.

My husband is the most loyal person I've ever known. I have never ever not even once worried about another woman turning his head. So, I don't know...I just wouldn't feel threatened by him watching some silly fashion show (underwear or otherwise) on TV.

 

[jelvenko]

It wouldn't bother me at all. The only thing that would bother me is if he started saying things like "I wish you looked like her" or "I wish you had a body like her".

I think the only comment that my DH would make to me would be "You should wear something like that."

 

[CuriousInIL]

I think the only comment that my DH would make to me would be "You should wear something like that."

Would that sort of comment bother you?

 

[CuriousInIL]

See
http://christianforums.com/t6532034-question-for-dws-about-si-swimsuit-issue.html#post41314208
for an offshoot question about the SI swimsuit issue.

 

[HeatherJay]

I think the only comment that my DH would make to me would be "You should wear something like that."

Would that sort of comment bother you?

My husband would be likely to say the same thing but in a more flattering way...he'd say something like "You'd look really hot in that." And it wouldn't bother me at all.

 

[-~Truth_N_Trust~-]

It wouldn't bother me at all. The only thing that would bother me is if he started saying things like "I wish you looked like her" or "I wish you had a body like her".

I totally agree, we have watched them together and it's usually "they're so skinny, what ugly underwear" etc. Basically he's not watching it lustfully...

 

[3girls2dogs]

I would prefer he not, but I wouldn't forbid it.

 

[Diane_Windsor]

We don't get CBS because DirectTV doesn't offer it (yet, the DISH network does, which is why we have switched and why I am plugging DISH ). If the Playboy channel doesn't bother me then a VS fashion show won't LOL