I was wondering, what are some implicit and/or explicit ways that you let your girlfriend know that you are bored with her and/or just bored in general.
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peanutbutter12
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Break up with her?
If you're bored with her, you need to be asking yourself why you're with her in the first place.
If you're just bored in general, get a hobby. :\
CJ
If you're bored with her, you need to be asking yourself why you're with her in the first place.
If you're just bored in general, get a hobby. :\
CJ
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hasnoname
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I've been bored with a girl before...and it is obvious to me in retrospect. If a guy is not making time for you, there is one sign (at least for me). Now if he is legitimately busy then it is different. If he doesnt really want quality time. I know from experience if I am truly into the relationship, its almost like I crave alone time with the other whenever we are apart...like true quality time...whether that means going to dinner or sitting really close and talking for hours...just time where it is just the two of you...and both are purely enjoying it. If he seems distant...that is generally a sign that he is bored.
From a God perspecive...because this is what He wants for you...and this is what he has for you if you listen to him...the guy should pursue you like Christ does. The most fun I have ever had has been in the past 7 months, just delighthing in my girlfriend...and showing her she is beautiful, both through my words and affirmation from God. If that is not happening...if he is not treating you like a queen...he is probably bored. You should expect that at the very least. My girlfriend had never encountered that before...but I believe that any guy following Christ should treat every girl he dates as he would want his wife to be treated. She is first your sister in Christ...and that is the most important.
From a God perspecive...because this is what He wants for you...and this is what he has for you if you listen to him...the guy should pursue you like Christ does. The most fun I have ever had has been in the past 7 months, just delighthing in my girlfriend...and showing her she is beautiful, both through my words and affirmation from God. If that is not happening...if he is not treating you like a queen...he is probably bored. You should expect that at the very least. My girlfriend had never encountered that before...but I believe that any guy following Christ should treat every girl he dates as he would want his wife to be treated. She is first your sister in Christ...and that is the most important.
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f U z ! o N
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well ask yourself why you are bored? what is making you become bored with her? remember a relationship is not gonna have 24/7 fun all the time.
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I've never been bored with her... but I have been bored in general when we're hanging around. And in that case this is what I do.... Look at her... and say, "Katie. I'm bored." 98% of the time she responds with, "Good, so am I." haha
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