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Uphill Battle

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Just had to post.

Having a hard time right now, my girlfriend is away in Costa Rica on a 4 month stint. As of today, we have made it through a month without seeing each other. We do get to talk periodically, but compared to our previous level of contact, it seems so little. The month passed so very slowly too... and I have to go through 3 more of them!

I figured I'd feel a bit better if I just spilled my feelings out about it. Of course, she knows I miss her, but I try and keep upbeat about it, it's only going to make things harder for her if I am down in the mouth about it... But MAN some days I am miserable without her here.

Anyways, I just had to say SOMETHING before I exploded.

peace!
 

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*Distant*Dreamer* said:
If you think you have it hard, I haven't seen my boyfriend in almost 3 months, and I won't get to see him for anotehr 2 years at least :cry:


Granted, that's worse than my position. Still, I think we can all identify with not having the desires of our heart nearby. I was just venting my malcontent!
 
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Write letters. Do they get mail? If not keep them for when she gets back. I did LDR for almost a year and I used to fill pages and pages with every thought or idea and mail off a big fat envelop about every 3 or 4 days. He kept them and it's really strange to see them now but he said it got in through the rough days.
 
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Linnis said:
Write letters. Do they get mail? If not keep them for when she gets back. I did LDR for almost a year and I used to fill pages and pages with every thought or idea and mail off a big fat envelop about every 3 or 4 days. He kept them and it's really strange to see them now but he said it got in through the rough days.

Actually, cool story... I wrote her a letter, it's supposed to take 2 weeks to get there.... it got there in 1 week, on the day of our Aniversary.... cool, no?
 
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Inperfected said:
Ooo cool...

As for proposing.. tho you mite not, it's a great idea. :p

I have to wait for the right time. I don't know what it IS that I'm waiting for... I just know that that isn't the right time.
 
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