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Psshh, you two need to go old school if you're truly scared of rejection.
Well, I guess if it works, it works.
That would be a question for the marrieds forum, not the singles
There's a balance between popping out of nowhere and saying "I LEIK YOU!", and refusing to say or do anything to make it known that there is interest
There's a balance between popping out of nowhere and saying "I LEIK YOU!", and refusing to say or do anything to make it known that there is interest
I don't think popping out of the box saying "I like you" is the issue as much as popping out of the box and being like:
oh dear Lord... no. Stay out of marrieds! That`ll destroy any and all interest in ever getting hitched.
And here comes Shari, ruining my plan to help all these suffering singles...
But..but..there have to be SOME...we'll say encouraging threads in there
oh dear Lord... no. Stay out of marrieds! That`ll destroy any and all interest in ever getting hitched.
Psshh, you two need to go old school if you're truly scared of rejection.
This has had the same result—the alienation of the girl I was interested in—only in those cases I'd also involved a third party in the fiasco.Get a friend to find out from the girl directly or one of the girl's friends if she likes you back. Not as simple as just doing it yourself but much less painful as far as the jitters and nerves go
Funny thingI'd wonder exactly the same thing if I pursued a girl and "got" her.
How about this. Forget about "pursuit". If there's mutual interest we meet face to face on level ground with nobody acting coy. If there isn't mutual interest, then we are honest about it, and nobody has to chase anyone down to figure it out. I swear all this crap could be so easily avoided if people hadn't imbibed the player culture's attitude that you shouldn't date your friends. If you have a good friendship with someone (which includes openness and honesty) then you'll come to know the intentions of the other person and the whole notion of pursuit with its attendant rituals and plumage will seem very silly.
A zillion what?
I was speaking gliterally, and a zillion is its own amount in glitter.
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