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cyg, I can see that happening, a lot of folks I know are drinking less but spending more on expensive drinks. They are seeking quality instead of quantity.

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This may sound crazy but I switched to using a safety razor back in July after reading some online articles and loved it, I'll never switch back to "modern" shaving methods.

I just ordered 100 blades (that's about 400 shaves) and a new 3 piece (safety razor) L6 by Lord. This will last me over a year and it cost me $31.90.

I thought since this is the pub, a lot of fellas sit in here and drink and all, I thought I'd change the conversation a little.
 
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cyg, I can see that happening, a lot of folks I know are drinking less but spending more on expensive drinks. They are seeking quality instead of quantity.

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This may sound crazy but I switched to using a safety razor back in July after reading some online articles and loved it, I'll never switch back to "modern" shaving methods.

I just ordered 100 blades (that's about 400 shaves) and a new 3 piece (safety razor) L6 by Lord. This will last me over a year and it cost me $31.90.

I thought since this is the pub, a lot of fellas sit in here and drink and all, I thought I'd change the conversation a little.
If you really want to do the man thing find a barbour who uses hot towels and a straight razor. ;) I had it done once in my life and it is truly an experience.

I still have my grandfather's razor strap, pronounced strawp, and use it to put a finish sharpening on my knives.

Personally I don't really care how I get to a close shave as long as it is quick, I shave every day. Well I didn't today and it is getting sticky. :D
 
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I know two fellas that use a cut throat and they admit it takes a lot of upkeep for the blade. The idea is cool but I have two daughters so I get about 10min. in the bathroom in the morning, that's it.

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My barber uses a straight to clean up my neck and around the ears. He has a hot lather machine as well, finishes every cut like that, with some talc powder.
 
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Well, everytime I see the popularity of this thread , I feel ashamed.
It would be much more edifying to the brethren to talk about something else. REGARDLESS of whether it is right or wrong.

JoY


I have to agree.

With all due respect what is with the infatuation with alcohol? How is this thread glorifying God? Yes, we are not prohibited from drinking alcohol but you have about 11,356 views on this thread. Your promotion of alcohol is a stumbling block to many of those viewers, not to mention those that are recovering alcoholics that are viewing this. It is one thing to sit back and drink a cold one in the privacy of your own home during the hot summer watching a Yankee game. But to openly promote the use of hard liquor on a Christian web site is beyond belief. We no longer live in the time of the Puritans where beer was safer to drink than water.

MacArthur put out a good article on the subject at hand. If you haven't already read it, please do so.

Beer, Bohemianism, and True Christian Liberty.
http://www.gty.org/Blog/B110809
 
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Much as I hate to say it, I have to agree with VCViking. It might be different at a place like PuritanBoard, where basically everybody who joins knows that the churches of the Reformation do not generally oppose alcohol on principle. But plainly, CF is arranged so as to encourage outsiders to the Reformed faith to look in on what we believe. Case in point: the "ask a Calvinist" sub-forum. Not that we wish to hide that about which our consciences are clear, but oughtn't we yield to the weaker brethren? Said John Murray,
The strong must exercise all due forbearance towards the weak. "Let not him that eats set at nought him who eats not." The way by which advancement in understanding and faith is to secured is not by contempt or ostracism but by fellowship, esteem, forbearance, considerateness, instruction; not by provoking vexatious questionings and disputings but by edification in the bosom of Christian love and fellowship. The strong must not indulge the weak in their mistaken judgments, yet they must exercise all due considerateness for the weakness of their faith and seek to make them stand fast in the liberty wherewith Christ has made them free. Such considerateness will induce them to refrain from the use of certain rights and liberties when it appears that the exercise of such liberties would constrain the weak to do that which they are not yet able to do with a clear conscience.
(The Weak and the Strong - John Murray - Reformed Literature)
If, therefore, we must publicly speak on CF about alcoholic beverages, let it be about the wine in Communion, or about the grounds from Scripture by which we know that we have liberty to drink, but let's not give weak-conscienced Arminians another reason to despise the Doctrines of Grace.
 
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@ moth and VCV, I understand your concern, but you do not have to visit or post in this thread. Football, mixed martial arts, eating restaurant food (like Mikey D's), chocolate, women, etc. can all be abused. Should we not discuss them because sinful man makes their use sinful through motive? I don't think so. The title of this thread should also stand as a warning to those who should not enter.
 
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Can a Christian man enjoy tobacco and alcohol?


Sure, a Christian man can enjoy any sin, it's pleasurable for a season. Is drinking wine/beer a sin? No. Strong drink? Yes. Tobacco? You're going to have a hard time supporting that it is not. But when drinking wine/beer becomes a stumbling block or an idol, then it becomes sin. By promotimg it here, you very well have possibly become a stumbling block. You've left the privacy of your own home and advertise to many.


Is it OK to drink alcohol?

Is it OK to drinkÂ[bless and do not curse]alcohol? - Desiring God
 
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@ moth and VCV, I understand your concern, but you do not have to visit or post in this thread. Football, mixed martial arts, eating restaurant food (like Mikey D's), chocolate, women, etc. can all be abused. Should we not discuss them because sinful man makes their use sinful through motive? I don't think so. The title of this thread should also stand as a warning to those who should not enter.


It's a little ridiculous to compare alcohol to sports and food. Sports and food are not destructive and addictive like alcohol is. Alcohol has and still does destroy many, many lives.

So, because I disagree with you I shouldn't visit or post? I do so only as a warning that this thread is a stumbling block to many. And a declaration to those viewing that not all those of the Reformed faith condone it.

“I neither said nor implied that it was sinful to drink wine; nay, I said that, in and by itself, this might be done without blame. But I remarked that, if I knew that another would be led to take it by my example, and this would lead them on to further drinking, and even to intoxication, then I would not touch it.”... “I abstain myself from alcoholic drink in every form, and I think others would be wise to do the same; but of this each one must be a guide unto himself.” ~ Charles Spurgeon

"So Spurgeon admitted he would give up his Christian liberty in order to avoid leading another astray. And eventually, in the last few years of his life, that’s precisely what he did. Spurgeon became a total abstainer." - Unk


"I might speak of men who will venture into the midst of temptation, confident in their boasted power, exclaiming with self-complacency, “Do you think I am so weak as to sin? Oh! no, I shall stand. Give me the glass; I shall never be a drunkard. Give me the song; you will not find me a midnight reveller. I can drink a little and then I can stop.” Such are presumptuous men." - Spurgeon


From John Piper (from video)
What do you say to those who claim drinking is OK because Jesus drank wine?

You say, "I think you meant to add just a word or two to that sentence, like 'drinking can be OK' ... OK?" The statement "It's OK" may or may not carry in their mind a pattern of life that's healthy.

I would say some drinking is definitely not OK, like drinking to drunkenness. That's clear in the Bible. Another one that's not OK is drinking with a person who is manifestly having their conscience wounded and being tempted or drawn into something that they just spent six years trying through Teen Challenge and AA to get free from. And now you're drawing them right in to what killed them! And it kills millions of people in this culture. It's killing marriages, it's killing jobs. Alcohol is deadly in this culture.

Now I don't know how deadly it was in Jesus' culture. Drunkenness was real. Clearly the Bible condemns it. How real and deadly it was though, I don't know. I just know what I'm dealing with when I go to talk at Teen Challenge or when I pray with a man like I did after church last Sunday who said, "When I'm done here, I'm going out and getting drunk, because I'm done. I think I'm apostate, and I'm beyond help and forgiveness. And I've been through treatment so many times it's hopeless." I just know that is so prevalent. People that are cavalier about this thing called alcohol make no sense to me.

I sense a lot of young guys who don't want to be legalistic and want to spread their wings and know gospel freedom are just not very realistic about the world in which we live. - John Piper
 
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Thank you Carrie Nation.

Seriously, any argument you offer from you high pietism is going to be rejected by Reformed folks, MacArthur and Piper included.

You are saying I'm guilty of something that "might" happen?

Is this the "Minority Report?"

Anything can be a stumbling block and if it wasn't for you high horse Fundamentalism you would see that.

A quote that I think sums up your faulty position:

"Carnality is not measured by what goes into our mouths, but by what comes out (Matt. 15.11) and piety is not measured by our abstention from temporal pleasures (Col. 2.20-23). The fundamentalist mindset is akin to the gnostic mindset which led to asceticism and monasteries. The Reformed understand that all of life is sacred, that is, temporal things are not evil in themselves, neither is non-ecclesiastical employment to be despised if it is lawful, but rather God is glorified in the right use of the things of this world. True godliness is a matter of the heart. Therefore, spiritual pride or neglect is a much greater concern to the Reformed than whether there is a beer in someone’s refrigerator at home. The Reformed view themselves as pilgrims traveling through this world with our eyes and hearts lifted heavenward to the next, which is to say, using the things of this world rightly but not setting our hearts on them but keeping our treasure above and our eyes on Christ (Heb. 12.2)."
Alcohol, sports and food are all addictive in some sense and we can make idols out of any of them. This includes making an idol out of being a pietist, pretending that you are holy, you are not. Neither am I. You are attempting to push a form of Legalism on us! Consider what Moody said to Spurgeon, “How can you, a man of God, smoke that cigar?” the answer was, “The same way that you, a man of God, can be that fat.”

Please read back through some old threads for a better understanding.
http://www.christianforums.com/t7586327/

http://www.christianforums.com/t7530423/

http://www.christianforums.com/t7482922/

http://www.christianforums.com/t7483009/

http://www.christianforums.com/t7378718/

http://www.christianforums.com/t7363699/

http://www.christianforums.com/t2943340/

http://www.christianforums.com/t2483410/

http://www.christianforums.com/t2494342/

http://www.christianforums.com/t2482136/
You have a Spurgeon avatar so you might like this quote from www.spurgeon.org:

Because we get so many requests for information about Mr. Spurgeon's use of cigars, we provide the following vignettes from some early Spurgeon biographies. It is important to note that Mr. Spurgeon's love for cigars was not an addiction, and he deliberately kept it from becoming an addiction, as is clearly shown in the anecdotes related by William Williams (below).

Furthermore, we fully agree with Mr. Spurgeon that smoking cigars per se is not a sinful activity. Cigars, unlike cigarettes, are properly smoked without inhaling, minimizing the risk of lung damage. Nor does cigar smoking normally involve the kind of addictive behavior associated with cigarette use. By all accounts, Mr. Spurgeon's smoking was occasional, and never much more than a cigar a day or so—which, again, suggests that this was no addiction with him.

There are no doubt health risks associated with cigars, but this is also true of cream cheese, or coffee, or almost anything when consumed without moderation. There is no real evidence that cigars in any way hastened Mr. Spurgeon's death.

Mr. Spurgeon's smoking was a historical fact, and the cause of truth cannot be served by denying it or inventing myths that suggest he finally "repented" of this activity. The fact is that he did not regard smoking cigars as a sinful activity, and he evidently held that opinion until the end of his life.

:holy:

I'll leave you with a quote from a great Reformer who understood the root of legalism on this matter. He does not tell us to sin but to live in freedom from the bondage that legalism places us in. If you do not enjoy spirits or tobacco, sports or food, that is up to you...but do not saddle others with your own personal legalisms.

"Accordingly if the devil should say, ‘Do not drink,’ you should reply to him, ‘On this very account, because you forbid it, I shall drink, and what is more, I shall drink a generous amount. Thus one must always do the opposite of that which Satan prohibits. What do you think is my reason for drinking wine undiluted, talking freely, and eating more often, if it is not to torment and vex the devil who made up his mind to torment and vex me." - Martin Luther

 
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Folks love to make things a sin because of the culture we live in. Well the simple fact is that nothing that wasn't a sin 2000 years ago is a sin now. I have never known a true believer who fell into alcoholism, or back into it, from observing a brother's freedom. I see the use of tobacco and alcohol as an opportunity to strengthen a brother's faith. If your conscience will not allow you to partake of these things fine but you have no right to point the finger at those who do. I'll bet that you use grape juice for the communion too!
 
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It's a little ridiculous to compare alcohol to sports and food. Sports and food are not destructive and addictive like alcohol is. Alcohol has and still does destroy many, many lives.

The obesity epidemic is proof the food can be very addictive and does destroy many, many lives. Yet gluttony remains one of the tolerated sins in many churches that everyone turns a blind eye to, while focusing on the "evils" of alcohol and tobacco. And then after church they sit down on the couch with a lot of fatty foods and sodas and spend the rest of the day watching football.
 
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VCV, we invite you to join our table here in the pub, drink tea if you like. I don't want to argue.

In the pub you can discuss all kinds of topics, not just alcohol and tobacco.

No problem but after I address a few points you raised and labels you threw out at me, then I'll be done on the topic and you can drink away.
 
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