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Erwin said:Hi
It has come to my attention that some moderators have been particularly heavy-handed in their moderation and acting outside of our moderating guidelines.
For example, some posts or threads have been deleted when they do not break our rules. Deleting of posts and threads are the LAST resort.
We have over 100 staff so you can understand that keeping track is difficult.
Obviously we have fallen short of providing proper training.
For the members who have been affected, accept my direct and personal apology.
We are dealing with staff training at the moment.
Also, I agree that we have TOO MANY forum rules.
As part of the reforms I am proposing we will be consolidating this.
As discussed, the reforms will be introduced ideally by early next month.
Thanks for your patience.
herev said:well done, Dr. Loh
Erwin said:Also, I agree that we have TOO MANY forum rules.
As part of the reforms I am proposing we will be consolidating this.
Erwin said:Hi
It has come to my attention that some moderators have been particularly heavy-handed in their moderation and acting outside of our moderating guidelines.
For example, some posts or threads have been deleted when they do not break our rules. Deleting of posts and threads are the LAST resort.
We have over 100 staff so you can understand that keeping track is difficult.
Obviously we have fallen short of providing proper training.
For the members who have been affected, accept my direct and personal apology.
We are dealing with staff training at the moment.
Also, I agree that we have TOO MANY forum rules.
As part of the reforms I am proposing we will be consolidating this.
As discussed, the reforms will be introduced ideally by early next month.
Thanks for your patience.
ISTM we have more rules after the reform than before.Erwin said:Hi
It has come to my attention that some moderators have been particularly heavy-handed in their moderation and acting outside of our moderating guidelines.
For example, some posts or threads have been deleted when they do not break our rules. Deleting of posts and threads are the LAST resort.
We have over 100 staff so you can understand that keeping track is difficult.
Obviously we have fallen short of providing proper training.
For the members who have been affected, accept my direct and personal apology.
We are dealing with staff training at the moment.
Also, I agree that we have TOO MANY forum rules.
As part of the reforms I am proposing we will be consolidating this.
As discussed, the reforms will be introduced ideally by early next month.
Thanks for your patience.
Crazy Liz said:ISTM we have more rules after the reform than before.
Well... the problem with that is you can be given an OW for something minor and your "no big deal deleted posts" become justification for an OW on the grounds you've had too much staff contact. Regardless of the fact there is no connection between the issues discussed in those 'contacts' and the post that resulted in an OW.belladonic-haze said:Well, the fun of rules is we can break them.......and a deleted post is not a disaster.....I had a few deleted.....2 I believe......and guess what...I am still alive and kicking. Humans make mistakes....both posters and mods. That makes being here so much fun...
BestTexas Lynn said:Thanks to Erwin.
I have not been participating lately, voluntarily absent for several months. Recently had some PMs w/ a senior staffer who's respectable advising me of the topic of this thread.
Can't address recent issues, but I can say at the time I ceased daily participation here things were awful. Some very inappropriate people had power. Attempts to advise higher-ups of this were met with deaf ears. Not only were politically incorrect people targeted and persecuted, they had no voice in the secret council. Criticism was met with an icy "you are attacking my family!" sort of attitude from mid-level management.
Recently when I perused CF for the first time in months I noticed some of the mean individuals toward which I referred above were no longer on staff. That was encouraging, as is this.
I wish all well. The hurt and pain from previous actions by CF staff will always be there. However, life goes on.
It appeared previously convoluted rules were instituted to minimize conflict, yet with the result there was no communication. It appeared to some one ideology was targeted, to others, another. There was micromanagement, and merely not being politically correct resulted in your name being written in the corner of the chalkboard so to speak (metaphor for archaic method of classroom punishment in grade school).
It seems the best communication is wonderfully anarchic. People should be allowed to say what they want as long as insults are avoided, and punishments for that should be meted out equally.
Lastly, any ideological requirements, written or unwritten, for service on staff should be summarily dropped post haste.
Thanks again, Erwin, and best to you.
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