For folks who read the Bible end to end and are familiar with the term adelphos, there is no reason to assume that it means any particular relationship unless there is a further description.
It seems like the early Christian writers commenting on the subject assumed the same as the modern reader does.
The prophecy of Psalms is additional proof.
I've given the list of uses for adelphos in Scripture - it just gets ignored (even by Thayers).
It is not relevant to anything I have said. Anuthing is possible; but what is probable?
It is like the Muslims I conversed with years ago, who retort that Mohammed calling Mary the brother of Aaron instead of Miriam is not a mistake on Mohammed's part, but really the way that Arabs talk.
Like hey sis, whassup.Yo yo.
I get it. I just don't find the argument particularly convincing, that's all.
Same goes for you and your adelphos.
It could be brother too, in the normal usage of the word.
I can admit to both. You must admit to the more uncommon usage of the term, or the walls of the infallible church come tumbling down.
It seems to me then, that like the defenders of the infallible Koran, it is the doctrine driving the scriptural text, and not the Scripture driving the doctrine.
But I also think that for some every RC and EO post is first filtered through the bias of those who are not in tradition Churches.
I am a Christian. That is my only bias.
It has been my experience also that, because I am EO, some posters automatically assume I am "brainwashed", or dishonest, or generally unreliable.
I personally think you are dishonest, but that has nothing to do with you being an EO. That is because of how you have personally treated me on this forums.
You also certainly know the nature of good historical proof, when it is convenient for your argument.
But then again, that is jusgt you. It is not your church, I don't think.
I must admit, the whole thing gets quite tiresome.
It would be tiresome for me too to be droning out the same argument again and again, thread after thread, post after post. I come here because I still have things to learn, things that I am interested in that I don't know.
It would be tiresome for me too, if I read your every word, because like Montalban, it is the same message over and over again.
Adelphos right?
I get it already. We all do.
Gods Word gave me the scriptural prophecy that made brother the better understanding of the word being used.
Without any real good reason to not the usual meaning of the word brother, I don't much like the dogma of the Virgin Wife. It doesn't fit well into what Judaism and even especially what Catholicism teaches about one flesh union of authentic marriage, and it leads to a culture where men go to dirty girls for sex and good girls get put on the pedestals.
With the historic evidence being so underwhelming, the linguistic evidence being at best a toss-up, and nary a EO or a RCC stepping up to laud the actual theology of virginity (other than to turn up their noses at the idea of Joseph mucking around and dirty sexing it up in the Holy Presnce of the Torah) suffice it to say I am not the only one who doesn't much believe in the dotrine/dogma!!
Nary a one believes in it on other than a distant intellectual level!! Nary a one of us!! It is not just me then that you have a problem with. It is jsut a doctrine for you too, a writing on a paper, and nothing like an actual way of life.
Other than 'because my chruch says so, people have talked themselves blue in the face, without even once proclaiming the model of Perpetual Vriginity as something that has any meaning to them at all.
I can truthfully say that I don't believe this dogma, but more than that, I can say that I don't much believe in it, whatever the sex life of the Virgin Mary might have been all about.
I don't see the dogma as having produced much good fruits actually, and nothing I have read here by the traditonalist ahve done much to convince me others. Whether or not you proclaim the doctrine/dogma, you don'tbelieve in it either.