I have two kids, 4 and 6. I am newly Christian in the last 5years and I want to do my best in bringing up my kids in an honourable way with what I have learnt and what im learning from Gods word. We are the only one in our extended family who are of faith.
We were at a family gathering yesterday with cousins from age 9 to 23. We visit them possibly twice a year. it is my husbands brothers family. They have always been a crude family and we have just accepted that thats how they live and they are probally not even aware of themselves being disrepectful as this is what they are use to.
Every second word out of their mouths was a curse , from the youngest child to the parents. EVERYTHING they said or anything others said was turned into an inuendo. They insult each other constently and mock and laugh at others thinking its funny. They use sex slang which my 6year old was asking what does that mean.
I was sitting there looking at my kids giving them the eyes of "dont repeat anything you hear here today".
I couldn't wait to leave but today iv got such mom guilt of did i do the right thing.
They are family and we only see them twice a year, is it more important for my kids to spend time with their cousins and have the talk after about don't repeat any rude things you heard? They are family at the end of the day, they are not bad people they just grew up different and don't know any better.
Or because my kids are so young and impressionable, they heard words and phrases they never heard before yesterday should we keep our distance from them to protect my kids from that.
You'd think the easy thing to do is to keep the distance but how can you get out of visiting less then twice a year!
We were at a family gathering yesterday with cousins from age 9 to 23. We visit them possibly twice a year. it is my husbands brothers family. They have always been a crude family and we have just accepted that thats how they live and they are probally not even aware of themselves being disrepectful as this is what they are use to.
Every second word out of their mouths was a curse , from the youngest child to the parents. EVERYTHING they said or anything others said was turned into an inuendo. They insult each other constently and mock and laugh at others thinking its funny. They use sex slang which my 6year old was asking what does that mean.
I was sitting there looking at my kids giving them the eyes of "dont repeat anything you hear here today".
I couldn't wait to leave but today iv got such mom guilt of did i do the right thing.
They are family and we only see them twice a year, is it more important for my kids to spend time with their cousins and have the talk after about don't repeat any rude things you heard? They are family at the end of the day, they are not bad people they just grew up different and don't know any better.
Or because my kids are so young and impressionable, they heard words and phrases they never heard before yesterday should we keep our distance from them to protect my kids from that.
You'd think the easy thing to do is to keep the distance but how can you get out of visiting less then twice a year!