Proposal idea?

[Mapik]

So my girlfriend and I have been talking a lot about getting married in the last few months. Anyways, first things first, the proposal.

Well after a day together and dinner and all of that good stuff, we'll sit down to consult God about our day. So this is how I plan on doing it (with a little help from fellow CF's also hopefully).
First I'll place the ring near the end of the New Testament, in the middle so it isn't noticable, of her bible. (She hopefully won't see this happen...maybe a little earlier in the day.) So later that evening when we are alone and going to start to talk with God, I'll hand her her bible. Everything will appear normal.
I'll say something like this "The other day I found a verse in the bible that applied to us, I think it was _______Genesis 2:24." She's turn to it and read the verse and ask me how that applies to us (or a confused look). I'll say "Oops, wrong chapter. I think it's in James." She's turn there and she'll see the ring. Then I'll ask the wonderful question, "Will you marry me?"

How's that sound? Also, I need a verse. Gen 2:24 is pretty good, is there another one that is better for my situation?

Spin-off: After she reads Gen 2:24, then I'll just take the ring out of my pocket.

I don't know which is better. Opinions are appreciated, thanks!

 

[Cordy]

I think that proposal sounds wonderful and original. I think hiding the ring in James is a very cute idea ( - just make sure it is secure and won’t accidentally drop out).

I think it is important to remember that the proposal is not the biggest or most important day in a girl's life (at least I think I don’t think it should be), although magazines and TV tell you otherwise. Every day of your relationship should be special, and after a couple gets engaged and married, I think they should continue to strive to make each day wonderful for the other rather just focus on the events that are marketed to us by retailers. I guess I mention this because you appear to have a very personal proposal in mind that reflects your relationship as a couple (one that seems to seek God’s will [which is great!] among other things). Don’t worry about it being fancy or perfect, but just focus on it being a wonderful moment (among many) to celebrate this step you are being led to take in this relationship you have been blessed with.

 

[Why?]

Very cute idea! I always wanted a proposal something like that. My husband and I talked about getting married and then we were at the mall one day and he said "Let's go pick out a ring." So we did and that's how I got it. Right there at the jewlrey store. VERY un-romantic. But I love him anyway. lol.

 

[bliz]

No one has ever accused me of being normal, so take that into consideration...

I think that the ring should be bought together after a proposal has been accepted. People's tastes very so much that it's hard to predict and many women will say the ring is very nice when they really would have preferred gold, or silver or white gold or anything but a diamond, or a pink diamond, or..... She won't want to hurt the feelings of the guy she love, but you really want her to have a ring she loves!

You can talk to your jeweler ahead of time and have them put together a tray of rings in your price range for when you bring her in. It is easier for her to choose knowing that you can afford every single ring there and you can talk about it together.

Personally, I'm not wild about the ring, or a note or whatever, in the Bible. It just strikes me as inappropriate, but I expect to be in the minority on this. I can't even really say why...it just rubs me the wrong way.

 

[Pope Gonzo]

Make sure you know what kind of ring she wants. I like that idea, especially if it fits in with your normal routine.

I'd love to tell you all how I plan on proposing to my gilfriend... but she'd probably end up reading it, and that would be no good I'll be sure to let everyone know what happens.