We use Pride in two ways:
Spartan Pride: We have spirit for our school, We feel good about our school, etc.
High Self-Esteem, Self-Assured, Content
Pride: Love of self that surpasses love for others, if one has any love for others at all.
Conceit, arrogance, haughtiness. There is usually a need to put use your talents to make others feel less than, to criticize others to feed your pride, etc.
I have often heard the priorities should be, God first, others second, myself last.
However, I have to disagree.
If you don't have love for yourself, it is really difficult to love others genuinely.
Ever meet someone who smiles a lot, confident, feels good about themselves? They usually have love for themselves that generates internally, and are thus filled with love to give to others.
People with insecurities, usually seen in a shell of arrogance, selfishness, hostility, the need to point out their wealth/intelligence/talent/beauty/status to others, however, often seek love from others rather than give it, lash out in fear, anger or suspicion of others. They have an emptiness that generates nothings.
If one is to love their neighbor as they love themselves, and have no love for themselves, that is all they will be able to offer their neighbor.
A parent doesn't think: I must physically care for God, then my children, then myself.
If you aren't physically caring for yourself, you won't be able to care for your children properly.
If one can have love and respect for themselves, however, they then know how to treat others, and that, imo, is loving God.
So, the order is self/others/God in the way it is acheived, but as a priority, they are all equal.