This is so funny.....I'm sitting here laughing as I type. Not at you, my brother, but just at the whole thread, really. We're all like a bunch of computers with 1 gig hard drives trying to cram 80 gig of information into ourselves.
heymikey80 said:
Of course I've heard it before, who hasn't? It's just not made much sense before, I was hoping you'd clarify.
Hey, I'll try, but I'm only human.
A human being responds. Isn't the human being thus responsible for that response?
Sure, why not. But until God intevened, the human being was unable to respond.
You're saying God's responsible for graciously giving me a chance to accept Him. That's fine. But my acceptance of Him is then my responsibility -- so --

-- how do I get less responsibility for my accepting Him than for my rejecting Him?
The typcial answer I guess an Arminian would give would be this: God has decreed that you will decide for yourself, and He has given you (graciously, undeserved and unmerited) the ability and opportunity to choose. So, I guess it's always His grace, initiative and design for us, but we are decreed to choose for ourselves whether or not to accept it.
Another school of thought might put it this way: Maybe you don't need to know the answer to this. Maybe it's in the unsearchable mind of God.
...and then, to confuse you (us all) further, maybe God's grace is resistable at times (Lydia) and irresistable at times (Saul), according to His Sovereign will and plan. Thus the way he dealt with you may not be the way he dealt with Saul- and who are we to bicker with God? Potter, clay, etc.
As you said, salvation's by God's grace alone, or rejection's my responsibility. Um, which is it: where's my responsibility go in salvation? You said, "Alone". But it doesn't seem alone. My responsibility seems just as important in salvation as in rejection.
We get back to the old "two pictures of salvation" analogy, don't we?
Picture one says there is a boat, and you have fallen over the side, drowning. Someone on the boat throws you a life-ring, and you swim to get it, hold on and don't let go until you're safe. Without the life-ring being thrown to you, you were most certainly going to drown.
Picture two says that there is a cliff, and you have fallen to the bottom, lying dead as a plank. God must bring you to life, but it is up to you to climb back up. He will help. (There could be a modified Calvinist version of this one two, for example, you don't need to climb or something. I don't know.)
Either picture, one only a tiny bit more more synergistic than the other, still relies on God to do the saving.