Wow that is a lot to digest. I have a feeling you are here only to debate your view on the matter so allow me to give a rebuttal and then I will ask you to honor the forum rules.
First off let's see what the scripture has to say about this and discuss what is "speaking in Tongues.
First off it is a multifaceted gift.
A) It is a personal gift for each believer (prayer language).
Romans 8:26-27
Jude 1:20
1 Corinthians 14:2
B) It is a gift for the whole church (corporate use)
1 Corinthians 14:5-19
So what else does scripture teach about the gift of tongues?
A) That we should not forbid its use!
1 Corinthians 14:39
B) That we can all operate in it in a corporate setting, in an appropriate manner.
1 Corinthians 14:5
1 Corinthians 14:40
1 Corinthians 14:26-28
C) That believers will speak in new tongues!
Mark 16:17
D) Tongues is the evidence of receiving the Holy Spirit.
Acts 10:44-46
Acts 19:6
Now to get to your grievances.
1-Those gifts were all given to build up the church and will continue until "the perfect comes". That Tongues is listed last makes it no less significant or necessary than the others. Using this logic, Pastors/Teachers are least important in the church from Ephesians 4:11 1 Corinthians 13:10
2-God rewards those who diligently seek him!
Hebrews 11:6
Psalms 105:4
3- There can be some deception amongst churches in the practice sure. I am not here to defend every church that preaches their version of the gift, just as I am sure you have no interest defending some variation of the truth either. But the truth still exists.
Romans 5:5 The Spirit is poured out into our hearts
Matthew 12:34 Out of our heart, the mouth speaks
4- Jesus said if we ask God for something good we will NEVER get something bad
Luke 11:9-13
5- Tongues are a sign yes, a sign of receiving the Holy Spirit Acts 10:44-46
6- Not true, the gifts will all continue until the Day Jesus returns to earth
1 Corinthians 1:7
7- Let's stick to what God says about the gift(s) not what some slanted view on history does.
8- Timing of the rapture is irrelevant to this case. God gives all gifts to build up the church until the day of Christ's return.
1 Corinthians 1:7
1 Corinthians 14:26-28
9- "because we cannot separate members of the Godhead." yet this was a scriptural experience. Read Acts 8 how the Samaritans believed and were baptized yet had not received the Holy Spirit.
10- 1 Corinthians 14:5
11- Acts 10:46 Acts 2:1-11
12-16 I agree with you
17- Already answered this one in another response. Gifts are for building up the church.
1 Corinthians 14:4-5
1 Corinthians 14:12
1 Corinthians 14:26-28
Ephesians 4:11-12
18- Ummm you cannot be a Christian without surrendering your will to Jesus...
19- Yes, the last days will be marked with deception. But you have not proven Tongues are deceptful. God never gives his children a bad gift if they ask for something good.
Luke 11:9-13
20- The Baptism of the Holy Spirit is separate from salvation Acts 8:14-17
21- Um I have not met any Charismatic who "embraces" Catholic doctrine. It is wise to not paint all members of a belief group into one corner based on the actions of a few. Should I label all Baptist as hateful because of Westboro Baptist Church? No, that is not Christlike at all.
22- Stick with scripture, not personal feelings
23- Already answered this.
24- Revelations should be tested against scripture.
25- There are a lot of things that can damage or destroy a local church. Hint, most have exactly ZERO Charismatics in them.
26&27- personal interjecture and completely irrelevant for disproving tongues.
It's been fun.
@Kiwi Christian @Biblicist @Alithis