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Praying for Silver

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I cant pray for Silver anymore. I realize its not true in my heart. I don't feel love toward Silver. I feel deep fear. I hope Jesus understands. I am terrified of the woman and I know she does not love me.
 
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I cant pray for Silver anymore. I realize its not true in my heart. I don't feel love toward Silver. I feel deep fear. I hope Jesus understands. I am terrified of the woman and I know she does not love me.

God provides the only prayers
He then answers.
Answered Prayers
 
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I think I will try my best to continue to pray for her it will just be difficult
Forgiveness can not be forced, but forgiveness and healing (for you) may come through praying for your enemy (Silver). Perhaps you can pray for Silver thinking of her as she might become if God answers your prayers for her, and brings her into His will and grace, rather than how she is now and was when she abused you? And pray for that transformation?

But be assured that God is good, gracious, patient and loving, and will understand if you are unable to pray for her at this time.

I pray daily for your healing, Luinilote, and ask God’s mercy for you.
 
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Forgiveness can not be forced, but forgiveness and healing (for you) may come through praying for your enemy (Silver). Perhaps you can pray for Silver thinking of her as she might become if God answers your prayers for her, and brings her into His will and grace, rather than how she is now and was when she abused you? And pray for that transformation?

But be assured that God is good, gracious, patient and loving, and will understand if you are unable to pray for her at this time.

I pray daily for your healing, Luinilote, and ask God’s mercy for you.
Thank you so much for these words Shoetoyou, they comforted me. I will try thinking of Silver the way she might become if God answers my prayers for her. Thank you for saying you pray daily for my healing, that means so much to me and touched my soul.
 
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