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Praying for forgiveness

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On the 23rd of April at 9:40 pm I was hit by an suv while crossing the street, I broke the tibia and the fibula and sprained my right shoulder. I'm left the hospital a few days after the operation to enter a rehab center and doing great physically but mentally I'm just not myself again and I hate the person who did this to me....He did not have a license and the only reason he stayed was because they were too many witnesses and his suv would not start after it hit me...I don't know how to move on or forgive him for the pain and suffering he's caused my family and I. I don't know how things are going to be once I get home either but right now I just hate him. I know I need to fogive and forget but how do I do that when everything is so fresh and I still can't sleep at night because of the nightmares?
Lucky for me I had my bible when he hit me because that's probably what saved my life along with my faith in the Lord. I will keep praying for the Lord to help me forgive him but I don't know how well that's going to work out cause I'm still angry.
 

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I will Pray for you Angel. Remember As God forgives you so you should forgive others. The Lord will take care of this mess for you. He will heal your heart. Think of all the things you still have. Your still alive with your family, You didnt lose any of your body parts. Just look at what you Have and not whats happend. Trials and tribulation are what Shape us into the person God wants us to be. His hand is in everything we do.
" I will never leave you nor forsake you" Hebrews 13:5 So remember Jesus Has a plain for you and your life :-D (Trust me I know how hard it is to Forgive something when its still fresh in your head. My father used to beat me up, And i HATED him for it. And i even had thoughts of him dying and not caring, The Lord healed me from that! Praise be all to him! I love my father now!! And have no thoughts what so ever him ever doing that!! :-D)
Love you sister
<3 Kristina
 
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Lord help this person to forgive those who hit her even if that person doesn't deserve it, it will be good in your eyes and that she will be blessed in forgiving those who harmed her. Help her to lean on you. Amen!!
 
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I pray Lord that You will lead Your child thru this time...and bring her safely thru...giving her the grace to forgive the one who tresspassed against her.

Help her Lord deal with the shock and the pain...You know all about pain...let real healing come...removing all roots of bitterness. Thank You Lord.
 
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Father,
I lift this person up through prayer. I pray that you will hear their needs and would bless them with what they're seeking. I pray that you would bring preace upon their hearts. Deliver them from evil and I pray that they will keep on seeking your way of Truth. I thank you for letting your Son, Jesus, die for our sins, so that we may have hope of forgiveness. Through your grace and mercy, we come to know you better. I pray this in Jesus' name, Amen. :prayer:
 
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You may have to work through your anger. You may not feel forgiveness right away but the fact that is where you want to go says a lot about your heart.

BE angry, punch a pillow. Yell at a tree -- get the anger out. Then tell God to help you work through the anger and move towards understanding and forgiveness. You will get there. God will take you there.

Lord, help this sweet person to heal. Help her to heal physically and emotionally. Lead her to forgiveness. Help her God with all she is dealing with.
 
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It's not just about forgiving him, you have to forgive for yourself so that you can begin to fully recover. The Lord Will not bless you to get better if you carry bitterness... I know it's not easy but you have it in you to absolutely forgive him.

I'm praying for you that you may have a goodnight's rest, and be Spirit led while recovering:groupray:

-Lady.
 
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