• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

prayer request : making a mistake

sampa

Veteran
Oct 6, 2006
5,633
3,506
Midwest
✟141,833.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Others
Just got home and didn't realize till the drive home from work I made a mistake that makes me really feel like a fool. I went to lunch with a christian co-worker. I ran into another gal who I was in campus life together with in the early 90s and ran into her again maybe 5years ago as a doctor. And know the gal is connected through another mutual friend.

Anyways, as I was talking to the doctor aqaitenance she kept looking at my co-worker like "arent' you going to introduce us" and for some reason I didn't think it was necessary and who know how my coworker was looking maybe horrified. Well it didn't all hit me till an hour ago:( And the only way I can think to apolgize is tomorrow to the co-worker I know at work. The other has facebook but no way to send a message without friending her. I sent a friend request but feel so awkward about this situation.
Your prayers would be greatly appreciated, I'm not sure the doctor aqaintenace would want to friend me after that.
 

sampa

Veteran
Oct 6, 2006
5,633
3,506
Midwest
✟141,833.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Others
...part of me thought the same, that she might have rectified teh situation and say "who is this that your with".....blahhh, I just had this tense warm feeling. I talked to my bible study leader and she made me feel ok with it and I am ok with talking to the co-worker but the doctor aqaintence .....maybe I just should worry, we never really connected except for her invitation to a friends baby shower. And I couldn't make that, maybe 2 years ago.
In my mind, I think mountain out of mole hill.....pray for some peace in this matter to just move on.
 
Upvote 0

Lone Wolfe

Member
Jul 9, 2012
631
2
✟23,296.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Politics
US-Constitution
Just got home and didn't realize till the drive home from work I made a mistake that makes me really feel like a fool. I went to lunch with a christian co-worker. I ran into another gal who I was in campus life together with in the early 90s and ran into her again maybe 5years ago as a doctor. And know the gal is connected through another mutual friend.

Anyways, as I was talking to the doctor aqaitenance she kept looking at my co-worker like "arent' you going to introduce us" and for some reason I didn't think it was necessary and who know how my coworker was looking maybe horrified. Well it didn't all hit me till an hour ago:( And the only way I can think to apolgize is tomorrow to the co-worker I know at work. The other has facebook but no way to send a message without friending her. I sent a friend request but feel so awkward about this situation.
Your prayers would be greatly appreciated, I'm not sure the doctor aqaintenace would want to friend me after that.

Prayers going up for your situation. Please don't worry yourself over something you don't feel was improper? I don't see that you did anything improper or rude in your post???
 
Upvote 0

sampa

Veteran
Oct 6, 2006
5,633
3,506
Midwest
✟141,833.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Others
lone wolf thanks I appreciate it. I think my water intake and nutrition was not the best today. Trying to hydrate and get the right nutrition before I go to bed. I know the Lord is working in my heart in a new way since last week. Trying to listen to God, with some disciplines integrated into my weeks.
 
Upvote 0

sampa

Veteran
Oct 6, 2006
5,633
3,506
Midwest
✟141,833.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Others
thanks for everyone who prayed. the co-worker thought nothing of it and we were chattier than normal this morning. The other gal, well she may never add me but ohh well. the co-worker thinks she knows the doctor, her daughter graduated in 1994 like her also.
 
Upvote 0