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Officer

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No matter what, DO NOT tell her how you feel about her. If you want to know her better, simply ask her for a bite to eat after co-ed soccer practice or whatever it is you all do as a team. Trust me when I tell you that spilling your guts to a female DOES NOT WORK.
 
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ThyLovingkindness

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No matter what, DO NOT tell her how you feel about her. If you want to know her better, simply ask her for a bite to eat after co-ed soccer practice or whatever it is you all do as a team. Trust me when I tell you that spilling your guts to a female DOES NOT WORK.

Officer. Why do you consider letting a woman know how you feel "spilling your guts?" I mean, if you're all over her, that's one thing. But many women would love to hear their men tell them how they feel. Why don't you think it won't work? Bad experiences? God bless, nice to be here again!
 
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TLK, I consider myself to be a man of experience and when I was an inexperienced, young man, I used to think telling a girl I liked her was the right thing to do. I found out that it often scared girls and when I quickly adjusted my ways, I had a tremendous amount of success with the ladies. I simply do what works and I stay away from things that don't.
 
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